Help Me

[Caboose]

Hey I been have thoughts about guys more than girls for like the last moth and I don't know if I'm gay bi or straight I got no one to talk to about this. Help please this is been fucking up my mind.

[Tristin.]

well, i always say in a situation like this, could you see yourself in a proper emotional relationship with a boy/girl. this usualy helps.

also, why label yourself? you can choose to do that whenever/if ever you want to. :)

i hope this has helped, if you want to talk drop me a line :)

[iamlauren]

Well, you can talk to me. I am a girl and I'm bi. Only three of my friends know and they don't care. And the way I know I'm bi is because I am absolutely in love with Sarah, one of the girls at my school. You don't have to decide just yet, but I think the advice of the poster above me is good; imagine yourself in a proper emotional relationship with someone. That will probably help. If you want to talk about it with me just message me or something.

[Caboose]

@iamlauren I can imagine my self with my best friend and I can also see myself with a girl who I know. I can't tell anyone I'm scared how they will judge me sometimes I get depressed just thinking about it. I think its different with a boy than its with a girl.

[Fruit_Tart.]

sorry, i hope you don't mind but how old are you?
i'm sure you are still a teen, which is still pretty young. like XxTristinxX said, you're still young and you have a long time to discover who you really are. no need to put a label on yourself... yet.
if you really want to label yourself, then just think about who you're attracted to physically AND emotionally. both feelings mean something and they could determine if you are straight, curious, bi, gay, ect ect.

@ your recent post:
how do you feel with a guy? a girl? are your feelings toward one stronger than the other?
sorry with the questions, but i wanna help. :) but i understand if you don't perfer me to. good luck whomever or however you figure this out. :]

[Caboose]

Well I'm 15 turn 16 in May. I feel the same with both these this girl who is just amazing and there a guy who i feel the same for

[Fruit_Tart.]

Hmm? You're attracted to them both physically and emotionally?

[Contra]

Well, given that, you're most likely bi, but you shouldn't define yourself right away, this period is a bit tricky for it (teen years).

[Caboose]

Hmm? You're attracted to them both physically and emotionally?

Yes I am

[Fruit_Tart.]

Then you are most likely bi, but I wouldn't label just yet. You're barely fifteen and figuring out what your sexuality is could be hard.
Psh. I labeled myself hardcore gay, but now... it's change. :P Let time go by and experiment and find out what you like.
Kinda like trying new foods. ;)