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Noobzilla
April 26th, 2011, 11:44 AM
I have had recent concerns about my sexuality. I seem to like the concept more, not the actual gayness of it if you can call it that. I am only attracted to few women, not the makeup smothered woman you see but the naturally beautiful and intelligent woman, I am only attracted to very few men in a fantasy type way.

Its not the emotional side of homosexuality im having concerns with its the sexual side. I am turned on more by gay pornography than straight. I feel like im heading towards being homosexual, i dont like the idea of that all. Its not that im afraid, or anything like that I would fine with it. Its just that I want a wife.. kids, a family to support. Things like that. Could it really be just the hormones? I mean im 15 but I was almost fully developed when i was 14.

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Fact
April 26th, 2011, 11:51 AM
:arrow2: Sexuality

kezyy
April 26th, 2011, 01:10 PM
Don't worry its probably a phase, I go though the same stuff.. it still young. If u ever wanna chat my emails in my contact details :)

nightrider768
April 26th, 2011, 01:47 PM
I think I have been in the same situation. Or actually I am still in this situation. All that startet when I was about your age (14ish) and now I'm 18 and it won't stop. I also want to have a wife and children and so forth and I absolutely do fall in love with girls of my age. But I can't deny that I am also sexually attracted by boys. Particularly boys, not men. I think that wasn't a problem two months ago when I was still 17 and not full-aged but now it feels kind of weird for me that I'm attracted by 15to17-year-old boys at the age of 18. For you, this definitely seems to be a phase but what is it for me? To be honest, it's kind of scary.
Anyways, same as kezyy said: If you ever feel like chatting about this topic just send me a PM and I'll give you my email adress or something. I'd love to help you with some good advice and maybe I can help you since I am a few years older than you.

Racer4life25
April 26th, 2011, 02:20 PM
I have the exact same problem.

SWMG
April 26th, 2011, 02:23 PM
It might just be a phase so leave to time

Tristin.
April 26th, 2011, 02:23 PM
i used to think like this, but i realised, that even if i am gay (which i have decided iam) i can still have a family. if you still dont like the idea, dont label yourself. just say "i love who i love" and let it go from there :)

Rmilance987
July 8th, 2014, 10:07 AM
i think that is totaly normal everyone have same problem more or less

Emerald Dream
July 8th, 2014, 01:52 PM
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