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green
April 26th, 2011, 05:52 AM
Seriously, I have asked five girls out in the past two months all of them said no. Am I unattractive, am I boring? I dont get it. Can any of you think of ways that I could make myself more...I dont know..alluring? Am I really unnatractive?
Dunce
April 26th, 2011, 06:04 AM
Well, maybe because they all know you've asked multiple girls out in such a short space of time? Who knows why the first one said no though.
But seriously, if a girl knows you asked out someone else not long before it's a big turn off. It's as if you don't really want them, you just want a girlfriend, and tbh that's not a very attractive thing...
When you go after girls and all of them say no(this is a scientific fact) your pheromones start giving out quite negative messages, i.e. The smell of desperation.
green
April 26th, 2011, 06:06 AM
thats the thing , they werent really close together and they didnt even know.
randy.boii
April 26th, 2011, 11:02 AM
u cant just ask a girl out cuz u think youll have a good relationship. you need to build a steady friendship with them and take it from there and u have to be able to be good friends with them to the point where u kinda kno a lot of their secrets
anonymous53
April 26th, 2011, 11:16 AM
Be confident, not over confident. Also build a friendship with the girls first, just don't land in the friend zone. Do NOT ask out multiple girls quickly, girls find out, they will be mad :)

Find ones you can relate to. If you like video games, go for a gamer.
randy.boii
April 26th, 2011, 11:23 AM
Be confident, not over confident. Also build a friendship with the girls first, just don't land in the friend zone. Do NOT ask out multiple girls quickly, girls find out, they will be mad :)

Find ones you can relate to. If you like video games, go for a gamer.

gamer girls are mad cute ;) haha
javs26
April 26th, 2011, 04:56 PM
cute gamer girls who don't know they are cute are even cuter
Rose
May 1st, 2011, 01:51 AM
Basically what girls want is a guy, whos really kind of a jerk, just enough so that we think we can change you and then when u do change into ur charming self (who just wants a good relationship) it will be great. We don't care what u look like (much, if ur having major apperance issues go with justin beiber hair i know it sounds lame but it works for girls) We don't care what u wear. just find someone who u can talk to