Breaking up.

[*Dissident*]

Ok. I am in a relationship with a girl. I love her so much. And she loves me. But i dont really know why I love her. We never have really good conversations, and we dont have anything in common. I love her, and she loves me...but there is another girl. She rides my bus. she is nice. and smart. And exactly what I want to be in a relationship with. I could see myself having a lot more fun with her than my current girlfriend. I dont know what i should do. I think it would absolutly devestate my girlfriend now if i broke up with her, and i love her enough to not want that for her. what should i do?

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Ok. I am in a relationship with a girl. I love her so much. And she loves me. But i dont really know why I love her. We never have really good conversations, and we dont have anything in common. I love her, and she loves me...but there is another girl. She rides my bus. she is nice. and smart. And exactly what I want to be in a relationship with. I could see myself having a lot more fun with her than my current girlfriend. I dont know what i should do. I think it would absolutly devestate my girlfriend now if i broke up with her, and i love her enough to not want that for her. what should i do?
Do you even know if this 'other girl' likes you?

[mRojas2000]

Do you even know if this 'other girl' likes you?

This is an important fact...

But why do you need to love for a reason?? Maybe between you guys there aren't many things in common and stuff, but you still think about her, feel the ticklyish feeling and extremly nervous when you are around her and stuff...
If you guys don't have many interesting things to talk about , come up with something!! Just get pretty interesting topics to talk about, go get a coffee at Starbucks, sit with her and just talk... maybe go to the movies later and stuff... or vice versa, if you guys go to the movies first and then to get something to eat you guys can talk about the movie and stuff. These are just ideas to get a little more communication between you guys...
Try this a couple of times, go out with her, buy her cute stuff, doesn't need to be all expensive, also. Maybe she's just feeling that you don't love her enough and she isn't showing any love to you eather.
Stay cool about this... give it time to try and stuff. Don't think about other girls yet... only when you really feel that this relationship isn't going anywhere, I would say just finish it, stay a couple of weeks single (cause then it would look like if you did it just go get with the other girl, and it wouldn't be so pretty...) and maybe ask the other girl out if you think she likes you

[*Dissident*]

well... we have been going out for like 5 months now. and i used to think it was perfect...but then i met this other girl...and i started to see flaws. she is really needy and thinks this will last forever... I DO love her. but sometimes i wish thing would be better if i had this other girl to talk to. im really philosophical, and i have a lot of wierd and underground political views...but my current girlfriend is not opinionated at all, and the one i want to go on a date with I have talked to on the bus...a lot. I think she likes me, but hypothetically speaking....if she did, what should i do?