Should I finally ask her?

[Jsanta17]

I like this girl so much... I adore her... and she adores me... but she likes both me and my friend. I'm afraid to ask her to choose, but I don't want us to drift away either... but I want our relationship to be more also... I don't know what to do anymore...

Should I just ask her to choose one of us, or should I wait for her to choose ... :|

[VChip]

I'd recommend waiting for her to choose.

But don't put all your eggs in one basket! (Easter ;D )
You have to consider the possibility of her picking your friend, or becoming more sensitive of the situation and picking neither of you out of concern to sustain the current relationship. If it was me, i'd begin to look elsewhere.. Out of respect for both the girl, my friend, myself, and another lucky lady who may be looking for a relationship as well.

Best of luck.

[User Deleted]

Ask her, but be suttle (however you spell that word) about it.

[randy.boii]

tell her how you feel and what u have to offer and how u can make a relationship amazing and just be honest and then tell her u wanna go out

[ktmay96]

I think you should ask her. If she likes two people, I know that if I can't really chose, then I go with the one who actually makes the move. If you both just sit back and do nothing she may lose interest. Or, if your friend makes the move first she'll probably chose him and forget about you. So do it, make the first move. Except I think that instead of asking her to choose (which would just pressure her) just ask her out. You already know she's into you, so there isnt much risk.

[anonymous53]

Ask her on a date, a casual date. This might sway her in your direction :) Do not ask her to choose, you could very well make her angry that way.

[Eagle63]

There's a saying that goes "bro's before hoe's." Keep both the girl and ur best bud in ur life. Losing one for the other ain't worth it. Trust me.

[music is my soul]

dont make her choose. ask her if she likes your friend. if she likes him more she should say yes. if she says no she likes you more. if she likes you ask her out some time. and if she likes him more just respect her decision and you two will stay good friends. trust me ive been in a situation like yours.

[The Madness.]

I agree with Rob, ask her out on a date. Maybe if you show her how you are, she'll be able to choose her mind after getting to know you. It never hurts. Don't make her choose though, like everyone else is saying. She'll feel pressured and the results won't look good. Just get to know her better and show her that you care about her, and you'll see what happens from there :)

[All The Small Things]

its is your choice

[cam.12.]

you should ask her on some sort of date. make it casual. you gotta show her that you really like her. hope that helps bro.

[Charleigh]

I think you should just back off and let her choose in her own time. As long as she is aware of your feelings then just let her decide.