Gf going to see her friend

[xhelgrindx]

My gf moved here about two years ago and she was going to go back to where she lived to see her friend and go to prom with a group of her friends she grew up with. Her best friend has gotten involved with drugs since she left and I'm worried about her trying to pressure my gf into doing them with her and I know she does not want to do that and I do not want her to do them. Idk is there anything I can do in this situation? My gf at the moment is going through a hard time I'm not going to go into detail what but maybe like depression or bi polarism and she does not need to get involved with drugs and even if she wasn't going through a hard time I wouldn't want her to get involved in that. Idk if i sound controlling and I honestly don't care if I do I'm just trying to look out for her. Just wondering if there's anything I can do.

[anonymous53]

Have her text you the whole time is really the best you can do, unless you want to see if you can be her date to prom. I know what you mean though. If she doesn't want to get involved she'll say no

[xhelgrindx]

Their not going with dates just a big group of friends and I bet she'll barely text me at all that's how she is when she's with friends. When I'm with my friends i still text her but when she is when her friends she barely texts me. Is that just like a gender thing. Girls and guys also hang out differently like i can be at my friends house and we can be doing different stuff but still like hang out together and she thinks that's weird lol.

Me and her are going to our prom right before she goes to her friends prom.

[anonymous53]

Eh, my girlfriend texts me all day long. I say relax though. You trust her, she'll be responsible.

[xhelgrindx]

Yes I do trust her and you guys text even if you're with your friends? I don't trust her friend though. I'm worried about her trying to pressure her or forcing her to do stuff.

[anonymous53]

Then talk to her calmly about it. Yes, we do but we're both extremely clingy :P

Tell her your concerns and ask her if she'd mind texting you a few times or something so you know she's okay.

[xhelgrindx]

Ya I'm extremely clingy as she is not so much lol but thanks for the advise.