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latedeveloper313
January 13th, 2007, 06:17 PM
Hi I'm gay and want to come out i was just wondering how many people are in the same position as me??

I'm scared of being rejected!!

redcar
January 13th, 2007, 10:43 PM
Thats the joys of being gay!

Rejection is horrible, but the thing is its when you find out who your real friends are! Try a close girl friend, they always are good to start with i think!

grimlip
January 15th, 2007, 12:36 AM
It's not that I'm scared to come out to people that I'm bi it's that I'm just not going to go up to people and school and be like I'm Bi, I'm just going to not deny it if they ask. And I won't be scared to talk about cute guys anymore, lol.

Sapphire
January 15th, 2007, 04:41 AM
I think that's the way to go about it. It means they don't turn hostile because they don't perceive you to shove your sexuality in their faces.

I am out to all my friends, although some of them seem to forget because I don't thrust my sexuality in anyone's face. Some of them freaked out and when they saw me looking at photos of angelina jolie said "Urgh, that's not right". The rest of them have been great about it. I can handle any biphobic/homophobic comments from random people. Its my parents that are my stumbling block.

Kamloops.man
January 31st, 2007, 06:32 PM
omg I really want to but everyone and I mean everyone would not accept it (I know they're homophobes but still) and it's against my religion...:(

Φρανκομβριτ
January 31st, 2007, 06:54 PM
do it gradually. Start telling people you trust the most, and then you'll feel more compfortable and try more people.

terith
January 31st, 2007, 07:36 PM
Im bi and I scared to come out,I also scared of bein rejected.

Φρανκομβριτ
January 31st, 2007, 09:04 PM
you just have to accept that not everyone will accept it. My gradad told me to my face hes homophobic, but he found out and he said well why would i love him any less. Sorry to say, you gotta suck it up

football
January 31st, 2007, 09:05 PM
ull have to do it eventually