Fun?! Relationships aren't supposed to be FUN!

[ThatScience]

I dont know how to have fun in relationships.
I have never had a proper relationship and am so worried about offending a girl that I get hung up on the symantics of starting a relationship that I don't have fun. It feels too serious and I think it scares girls of.
How do I get less serious and have fun starting a relationship?

[randy.boii]

hey if u just be yourself and be you you will be fine your just super nervous and dont worry everything will be ok and if u think about messing up you will so dont. just tell the girl hey im really nervous about doing something stupid or what not and if shes worth it shell understand

[Fact]

I dont know how to have fun in relationships.
I have never had a proper relationship and am so worried about offending a girl that I get hung up on the symantics of starting a relationship that I don't have fun. It feels too serious and I think it scares girls of.
How do I get less serious and have fun starting a relationship?

If you're just a serious person, then why change yourself just for the sake of a few throw-away relationships that could potentially waste your time?

If you meant, you're not normally a serious person but you act serious when in a relationship (uncharacteristically) then you need to find a girl that you can relax around. If you can't do that, find the kind of girls that you can't relax around - process of elimination :P

Hope this helped.

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

Well it sounds a tad that you are getting a tad wound up! Just relax dude :)

If you wana have fun in a relationship then pass the time doing things that the two of you enjoy! a concert, walk in the park, swimming, theme parks... the possibilities are endless!

I know what it feels like to get caught up in the mechanics of a relationship, but take a step back and look at the bigger picture, the relationships we make now are not going to last forever so enjoy them while they last! we're young and theres no rush to not have fun and spend time with the opposite sex (or same if thats what you're into) :)

hope this helps mate! feel free to message me! <3

[User Deleted]

Deja vu... Have fun, Its lame to be mega boring :P

[ThatScience]

Deja vu... Have fun, Its lame to be mega boring :P

<sarcasm>Good idea!</sarcasm>
How?

[SuperTgirlTaylor]

what exactly do you mean?

[User Deleted]

<sarcasm>Good idea!</sarcasm>
How?

I don't know, just don't restrict yourself to kissy, boring, blah. My mom dose that and its lame, do whatever you enjoy, like if the two who are together enjoy the same activity (walking, basketball, whatever) feel free, Its just (opinion, big time) lame to keep yourself from doing what you enjoy, especially if you're trying to build a relationship. Its hard to build a relationship without enjoying your time together.

[Zazanama]

Wow rly you know what i do i go up to her (your dreamgirl) and her buddies and just introduce myself at the beginning of the school year and then you always hang around them and talk to them until theyre ur best girl friends and then once you think it is time you ask her and then most of the time shell say yes. :) or just wait until shes just hooked to you and cant stop talking to you then you would know its time for sure :) hope this helped btw this has also worked for me  good luck and have fun