My "Friend"

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

I made the mistake of becoming friends with a two faced, lying, self centered....girl. We got into an argument about two weeks ago, and after her complaining for about a year, I lost it and yelled at her. I told her to STFU, and then turned to the table and said "I'm so sick of this sh!t." She ended up teling people I cursed her out to the point of tears. (Not true, I said one cuss word directed towards her, and she wasn't even crying, she was hissing at me that I was mean, and it seemed like I wanted to get away from her) I despise her, I hate her, I can't wait to leave her. We ended up "making up" but I found out she's talking about me behind my back to my best friend and my other friend. She says that I'm mean, and I bad talk people...

She's also trying to ruin my friendship with my best friend. Sommer and I are making sure that doesn't happen though, we both dislike this girl. Sometimes, we feel like she's using us for food, and actually, just plain using us. She tells people lies, and she changes facts up to make her self look good. I've never felt this..hatred, towards someone before. I tell people that hate isn't good, but here I am feeling hate.... For the last year, I've been her friend. I did a lot for her, and I forgave her when she lied about things. But, she just is hurting me. She hates it when she doesn't get attention, so she gets PO'ed when the attention isn't on her.

Is it wrong that I want to hurt her as much as she's hurt me?

[Contra]

No, of course not, those feelings are perfectly natural! I'd feel the same too!
I'm going to give you the advice I gave to another girl here, to a slightly different kind of situation, but with the same type of person.

Talk to your friends and tell them what she did, everything, make them believe you. If they really are your friends, they'll believe you and be on your side. Then, she will be all alone, that is one of the worst things in the world, so she can realize she can't do what she did. (I know, it sounds harsh, but you know what she did)

Me and my two best friends did the same with another friend, except that the problem which caused it was something else. (If you want details, PM me)
And, guess what, it worked, she realized she was a bitch to us too. Now she wants to get back with us, but we hate her, so we won't let it happen.

I hope I helped! :)

[anonymous53]

Don't retaliate. Just stop talking to her. Let people believe what they want to believe. If they talk to you about it politely correct them. Drama is petty and useless. :) Ditch her.