Is this a relationship? A flirt?

[JackShephard]

So this girl that I have always liked just a little in the back of my head might have to move in with me. She is my best friend and we can talk about anything. She loves me and I love her in the way that we would take a bullet for the other. But recently, I lost my virginity to her. Right before I did, I told her that I don't want to be attached and then get hurt somehow. I know that it sounds dumb but it was supposed to be meaningless. I asked her, " what if i start to like you?" and she told me "then we would go from there"... We made out and cuddled after the second night. The next day, I told her that I have always had a little crush on her and now it's bigger. So I asked her "what is this exactly?" and she said she didn't know. We kiss, and I have "boo" as a pet name now. We do stuff for each other more than we used to.

Now let's get one thing straight, she had much more intense relationships than I have so I'm kinda letting her lead. I totally trust her with everything so I'm not scared. But I wanna know what the VT community thinks this is. Should I just go with it and see if I can figure out where it leads? Any thoughts are appreciated. :)

I'm not worried about messing up our friendship. That's impossible. And believe me, I'm not just saying that. I wouldn't ever think of hurting her intentionally and she wouldn't ether.

[anonymous53]

It looks like it's turning into a relationship very quickly :) Good luck.

[Iron Man]

Sounds to me that things have gone farther than friendship. My advice to you: don`t ruin it. Aside from your family, she is the most important living entity on this planet to you. If she wants to be with you, and you want to be with her, what is wrong with it? PS, never cheat on her. Ever.

[JackShephard]

Oh no. I couldn't cheat on her. And she wouldn't ever cheat on me.

[ThatScience]

Sounds like a relationship with mutual interests, trust and love. I say go for it!