tell me...

[beag_amhain]

i need to cut, i need someone to tell me its ok to, jus this once, jus one little cut, it calms me down, i need to be calmed, i just need someone to tell me its ok to do it this once

[MadManWithaBox]

Its not ok. One cut always leads to more. Please, stop and think.

[Tristin.]

im sorry cecily, but i cant condone it.

i know how your feeling, iv asked the same thing before, what you need is someone to say no. so, im saying it, no. cutting is not the way to go, as much as it appears to be, it is only an illusion, cutting provides a short lived break, nothing lon term, you need to talk, not cut.

so again sorry, but i have to say no, cutting is not ok.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[beag_amhain]

its all i can think about, i need to stop thinking!

[Tristin.]

i know its hard, but you need to find something that takes your mind off of it. i found writing helped me, i wrote alot of things when i felt like this, try it out :) x

[MadManWithaBox]

One cut always becomes more. You're in a bad place, I understand. But this isn't the answer.

[Tristin.]

listen to matthew, he is probably one of the best people to help you x

[beag_amhain]

but i dont know wat else to do

[Tristin.]

write things, talk to us, do anything that will take your mind off cutting x

[MadManWithaBox]

Talk. Scream. Watch tv. Sleep. Write down every bad thought in your head then cross it out, because you're so much better than it.

[beag_amhain]

i cant

[Tristin.]

you can!

ignore the person who is telling you you cant, because you can. ignore the thoughts that say you cant, ignore them.

do as we have suggested, do whatever will take your mind off it

[MadManWithaBox]

Why not?

[Indecision]

You can do it. You have to.
Draw things all over your skin.
Tear up paper/whatever.
Talk to us.
Shout at me as if it were all my fault.

You're the best; you really are. You're so gorgeous, someone appreciates you, that's a promise. You can beat this, you can get through the night without any pain. You can do it.xx

[Gravemind]

One thing I do when i feel like cutting is I go for a walk around my neighborhood. It helps clear my head. Writing, drawing, or doing anything to keep you preoccupied is good too. Trust us when we say you CAN stop yourself. Everything's going to be ok. *hug*

[moondream]

no one here thinks its okay to, altho i do it, and some others on here do it too, you need to reilize that you, and i need to stop, altho i understand the urge and i understand the need. so if u must, u must. but you need to know that you needt to figure out a away to stop this, just like me, if u need anything you can talk to me

[NobodysCupOf Tea]

That's just what i thought, now i cant stop.

Don't start yourself on this spiral. don't start and you won't get hooked.

Theres so many options out there for a none cutter, take that opportunity!

We all love you here and im here if you want support! x x x

[beag_amhain]

thanks everyone

[MadManWithaBox]

Are you alright?