Im bisexual

[Love.Hate]

Okay so I'm pretty sure I'm bi, as I'm attracted to both sexes.
I can't tell my family or my friends because I think they will judge me. As it's seen to be "they can't make their mind up" or "greedy". So i don't know what to do. I want to tell people but I'm scared, my friends will probably think I fancy them or something (which I dont).

How did you first "come out"? And what were peoples reactions?

[Rayquaza]

I think you need to wait for the time in your life where you embrace your sexuality and have pride in being part of the LGBT community. If its your parents/family choice to disown you, fine. But thats their choice to lose their own daughter which Im sure they will regret. As for your peers, ignore them, it has nothing to do with them. You are who you are and nothing can change that.
EDIT: My friend is bisexual, and no one really cares that much.

[Love.Hate]

Awh thankyou, I just want to be accepted for who I am. But everyone is so homophobic where i live. But hey it won't always be like that. I'm going to wait to tell them, as they are definitely not ready to hear the now.

Thanks again :)

[blackmusicbox215]

Well I just told some of my close friends, then I put I was bi on my info on Tumblr, and people found out, and I didn't even knew that they knew. People didn't judge me, and if they did I wouldn't care.

[Fruit_Tart.]

When I first came out to this girl I had to trust her with my secret, but I kinda knew she'd be accepting. I came out to her and she came out to me, which surprised me that she was bi. Now we're great friend and gradually I came out to more people.
I don't necessarily think you have to wait to gain someone's trust, but if you're comfortable with telling your friends then go for it. :)
Joining a GSA or some sort of LGBT program could help, so what ever floats your boat. ;)
Good luck! ^_^

[Love.Hate]

awwh thanks guys.

Im probably going to tell a few people.. but im not sure just yet.

I am used to being judged anyway, so i will rise above it if that happens.

:)

[iamlauren]

I'm lesbian. I told my friend Kelly because I trusted her and she told me she was bi. I also told two other people, one being the girl that I am totally in love with (Sarah), and the other girl who is my best friend and Sarah's best friend (Alessandra). My parents found out when they read my diary and they hate me for it. But my friends (the ones listed above) don't mind. But I know my other friends would hate me, so I just pretend I'm normal and I pretend to like Daniel. Just lie. It's easy. You don't have to come out.

[Love.Hate]

But lying is hard, I'm so bad at it!
I guess i have to just face up to the fact that this is me and no matter what Antibes says I won't change. I'm glad some of your friends accept you, I hope mine do the same :)

[Zajuzu]

I worried a lot myself about how people would react, but then I decided that the people who do not accept me as I am are not worth being my friend :-)

[Love.Hate]

I worried a lot myself about how people would react, but then I decided that the people who do not accept me as I am are not worth being my friend :-)

This is very true actually. Real friends wouldn't care what I was, cause at the end of the day I'm still me. :)

Thanks

[Fruit_Tart.]

Being judged is like a bit of dust in your eye. Really annoying at first, but you get used to it after a while.
Don't let anyone bring you down. Stand strong and just shrug/brush off anything people have to say. :P