Oh sigh...

[PatrickSnM]

Okay, so... There is this girl that I REALLY like :wub: but she doesn't know really who i am. I want to talk to her and tell her so bad, but i just.. can't. There isn't a moment when i see her where i don't want to just run up to her and hug her tight. But she barely knows me.. i wonder if she even knows my name ha. :( Normally i have no problem talking to people or expressing my feelings about someone, but with her i can't. I just have a HUGE fear of rejection and i just get so nervous when i try to talk to her. I just need some advice on how to talk to her, become friends and hopefully start a relationship. I'm sure it wont be so bad after i first legitly talk to her, but i need help/ideas on how to do that... so, please help! :hug3:

[Sage]

Keeping your feelings to yourself for a prolonged period of time is going to hurt a lot more than being rejected, kiddo. You just need to let go of everything you're thinking and talk to her as if she were just another person. If you're far too friendly right off the bat, you're just likely to get friend-zoned anyway.

[PatrickSnM]

The few friends i've told said the same thing about the rejection being not as bad as keeping everything bottled up... it's just, she's way outta my league to begin with. I'm such a pessimist when it comes to this kind of stuff i guess.

[Sage]

she's way outta my league

Well, then you need to go out and better yourself. Deal with all the things about you that are sources of insecurity. Then you won't feel that way anymore.