Privacy...?

[steve14]

Is it just me that my parents seem nosey?

Everyday I come home and do homework in my room. I close my door all of the time. I cant lock it because they wont let me put a handle with a lock cause "its their house" ok, it is their house, but why cant i have any privacy? What if i was jerking off?

And even when im in the bathroom, or in the shower, my dad feels the need to come in just to fix his hair, or randomly flush the toilet.

No matter what I do unless im home alone, I have zero privacy...

They seem that they can just come in.... WHY?

Does this happen to anyone else?

[Rayquaza]

Doesnt sound right, you should tell them that you feel you need your privacy

[steve14]

THANK YOU!

i even went out, bought myself a lock for the inside of my door, and put it up, and then i woke up at 4 am to my dad un screwing it.... wtf?

I dont understand....

Ive talked to them sooo many times, and my mom was like, your right, your a 15 year old guy, i have to let you have at least some privacy, but not my dad... -__- he said that he doesnt care, whats there to see that he hasn't did himself? i was like i dont care...

[MacMilker]

Is it just me that my parents seem nosey?

Everyday I come home and do homework in my room. I close my door all of the time. I cant lock it because they wont let me put a handle with a lock cause "its their house" ok, it is their house, but why cant i have any privacy? What if i was jerking off?

And even when im in the bathroom, or in the shower, my dad feels the need to come in just to fix his hair, or randomly flush the toilet.

No matter what I do unless im home alone, I have zero privacy...

They seem that they can just come in.... WHY?

Does this happen to anyone else?

Parents often can be insecure about leading their child down the wrong road, with popular television shows often discussing the problems of teens, and morning news programs frequently chatting about how to protect your kids from the pathway of drugs, and parents can buy into that stuff.
Especially if you are an older child, even more so if you're an only child.
If you have done anything to betray their trust than this can also have a great deal of relation to the problem you're dealing with currently.
If you haven't done so then basically they just don't have a very trusting relationship with you. Which probably hurts but it seems the case.
Think of what you can do to prove they can trust you, bringing up the idea of having a lock on your door can potentially make any parent nervous with why you would want one in the first place.
If you haven't given them a reason to not trust then it also seems like it can translate into them loving you very much and being concerned of your welfare.
Regardless of any of the potential reasons why mentioned above, just do your best to behave and don't take the risk of jerking off when they might walk in the room to check on you, maybe in as little as a few months time of good behavior you can get that lock you wanted, and they might loosen up a bit on you.
Goodluck anyways~ :yes:

[Starlight Blaze]

I used to have a similar problem with my old stepdad he never fixed the bedrooms, so my brother and I both had to sleep in the living room, and then they came into the bathroom whenever i was in there

i dont know what to say, we ended up leaving my old stepdad
but maybe try explaining to your dad why you want privacy, tell him like its just something you feel you've earned, and/or YOU dont feel comfortable with him seeing you, no matter how he feels

if all else fails, you could always talk to your mother about it, and she could talk to him

[donkeymkong]

That's horrible! Everyone needs some privacy? You should tell them that you are going to randomly walk into their room at night and see how they like it

[Starlight Blaze]

That's horrible! Everyone needs some privacy? You should tell them that you are going to randomly walk into their room at night and see how they like it

that could get him into trouble if his parents are the wrong type

but your on the right track

[Fourth Dimension]

my parents just leave me alone 90% of the time

[Contra]

I'm sure it happens to a lot of other people. It's not my case, I have locks on the doors and I lock my door when I'm in the bathroom and I think that's the way it's supposed to be.
Well, in your case, you're already halfway through because your mom agrees, that way you can ask her to help you convincing your dad. Also, ask him what are the real reasons he doesn't let you have your privacy. Oh, and appeal to his inner teen, maybe he'll understand.

Good luck :)

[Impact13]

THANK YOU!

i even went out, bought myself a lock for the inside of my door, and put it up, and then i woke up at 4 am to my dad un screwing it.... wtf?

I dont understand....

Ive talked to them sooo many times, and my mom was like, your right, your a 15 year old guy, i have to let you have at least some privacy, but not my dad... -__- he said that he doesnt care, whats there to see that he hasn't did himself? i was like i dont care...

dude THATS crazy!! I would be one pissed off person if i didnt have privacy

[Sogeking]

Puberty for boys:arrow: Family and friends.

[steve14]

Thanks for agreeing everyone! Idk anymore; 2 years then im off to college!

[Jody Jackson]

I don't have a lock and my mom sometimes knocks but sometimes barges in. She has seen me nude before and I just tell her to get out and please knock. I don't understand parents.

[steve14]

I really dont understand them... whatever... ONLY 2 YEARS!!!

[BadWolf]

My dad doesn't know the meaning of the word "privacy"! He goes through my facebook, and my texts all the time while I'm not there. Its SO annoying!