Far away.

[ThatScience]

So i met this girl (a friend of my cousins) and shes really nice. We really clicked.
I want to start a relationship with her but im going back home soon and we wont be able to see each other in person. I friended her on facebook.
would it be wise to try and start a long distance relationship?
if so how would i let her know how i feel?

[suicidenote.]

I have tried long distance dating more than once.
It is probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do. . .
It really isn't easy at all to be so far apart from someone you care about so much.
Just from experience, I wouldn't advise it.
Then only way to show your feelings for her is over the computer, the phone, or webcam. And it is NOTHING like actually getting to be with that person.

But, whatever choice you make, I'm sure it will turn out fine.

[anonymous53]

It's not an easy task to have a LDR. Even a 2 hour distance between my girlfriend and I is hard sometimes. *EDIT* Misread that and thought it was your cousin. Fail. * You can make it work as long as you two really are committed to each other.

[Eagle63]

LDR's suck, man. I've been there. However, I would tell her how you feel anyway. Do it in person before you leave. I know, it sounds like something from a sappy romance movie, but it works in real life too. Trust me.

[ThatScience]

LDR's suck, man. I've been there. However, I would tell her how you feel anyway. Do it in person before you leave. I know, it sounds like something from a sappy romance movie, but it works in real life too. Trust me.


problem is i wont see her again before i leave.

[The Madness.]

It won't be easy, you have to realize this first. But if you two are both committed and feel the relationship can work long distance, then go for it.

As for telling her, just tell her. Don't try to beat around the bush, tell her whenever you feel the time is right.

[AutumnDae]

How far away are you? Will you be able to see each other on weekends? Can you both drive? Or is there public transportation for both of you to take? Think about things like this.

My last boyfriend and I were about an hour apart, he couldn't drive, but I can. That's partially what led me to break up with him, along with other reasons, that didn't have to do with distance.

Besides how far away we were, I was busy almost every weekend, and on days I wasn't busy, he was, so it was hard to find time to see each other.

Talk to her about it. LDR are hard, but I have seen them work before.

[Eagle63]

I agree with Autumn on finding transportations on weekends and stuff. That is what works best. However, if you won 't see her before you leave, at least do it in person. Any girl who thinks you don't have the guts to tell them you like them in person is bound to say no.