why is love complicated?

[silly teen]

ok so there is this girl iv'e been trying to get with for about a month. we talk, text, and do activities together. when should i ask her out... how?

[User Deleted]

Just go up to her in person, have confidence, tell her. If she feels for you it will all go smooth, if not, it will just become water under the bridge :P so no worries :D

[Kaius]

My World (Diary) :arrow2: Relationships and Dating

[JohnHoper]

Loveis really not as complicated as you think. You can like something, adore something, hoard something, but it can not be love. You can say you love something but what I have found out is that love is not liking something very much. It is commitment and to like is only a part of what love is. An old married couple might not have liked each other at some point through their years, but it is the love or commitment that made them stay together :) If you are commited to this girl, just ask straight up and if she says no, say OK and build a stronger connection to try again later.

[peterjames24]

Love demands your full attention and all your energy to produce fruits at the end of the day.People don't spend their entire lives committing to and fighting for something that is not ultimately worth the effort.

[randy.boii]

When your a teen ur hormones are crazy you fall in love easy and hurt easy it sucks but it happens

[silly teen]

thanks for the advice guys

[Dog Desab]

I'm confused by the title and the post! Do you want an answer for both? I'll give it anyway.

Love isn't complicated. It's more of the motions you go thru. Willingness to do anything for the person you love. Protect them over your own life. Love is just how much your willing to sacrifice for that person or persons.

Now for the girl situation. I'm guessing that you think you love her and that's what the title is supposed to mean or something like that. But you don't love her. Your attracted to her a lot. Nothing wrong with that. You just have the jitters or are nervous about asking her out. Like Vulpes said muster up the confidence and just ask if she would like to go out.

If you two are really great friends and she see's nothing more in the relationship then she'll say no and still be her old self.

If she says no and doesn't talk to you because it was "awkward" then she is a bitch and your gonna have to find a way to get over her. Sorry that's life buddy.

If she says yes good on ya mate. Just don't ruin it by being super forceful. Be cool about it.

[Wicked_Syn]

Not trying to sound like a sour old sap, but I don't believe in love at such a young age...any age in teen years. 13-19.