I think I'm gay.

[quackenbush]

I do. I always fantasize about kissing or cuddling with a guy. Most all the time I watch gay porn or jack off to my friends. Part of me is telling me that I'm not gay and that everyone does what I do and they're straight. I'm thinking I'm telling myself this because I don't really and haven't really experimented with any dudes.

Can anyone shed some light on this? I have no issues with being gay. I just, I don't know...

[tpzy94]

youre just curios but then again you might be gay its ok just accept it then

[quackenbush]

Is there a point where you can be really, really curious? I mean I still like girls, a lot.

I'm probably just bi. Sorry for the trouble of starting a pointless thread.

[tpzy94]

oh no its ok its ok thats why im here i understand well maybe you just want to experiment lol

[Aeroflux17]

You are Straight But Curiosity kills it. :)

[quackenbush]

Thanks tpzy94 and Aeroflux 17! :)

[Aeroflux17]

no problem.. just call my name and ill be there.

[Iron Man]

I am going to assume that you are physically attracted. But, are you emotionally attracted? Only you can answer this.

[IMonfire]

I think you're just curious.
But I've been on the same boat as yours before and I ended up being a bisexual.
Anyway, who cares if you're gay? :)


"It is our choices that determines who we truly are, far more than our abilities."

[kezyy]

I would say ur bi.. or curious

[Contra]

It depends, you can't really tell what you are at this point of life, your hormones are going haywire and your feelings get all mixed up. I feel the same things you do, except for the cuddling part, I call myself straight curious for now because I can't picture myself in a relationship with a guy, only with a girl and I feel romantically attracted to girls rather than guys, I just feel physically attracted to guys.

[tyler007]

I too think that you are just curious, but alot of striaght guy are too,,, you should check out this group: Straight but not narrow.. google it or fb it.
but i think you are ok and its normal.

[MacMilker]

It depends, you can't really tell what you are at this point of life, your hormones are going haywire and your feelings get all mixed up. I feel the same things you do, except for the cuddling part, I call myself straight curious for now because I can't picture myself in a relationship with a guy, only with a girl and I feel romantically attracted to girls rather than guys, I just feel physically attracted to guys.

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[quackenbush]

Thanks for all the responses, guys.

About the cuddling part, I would honestly cuddle with anyone. I just like body contact I guess, haha. I can't see myself going out with, or marrying, a guy. I guess I'm just straight curious as one of you said.

Thanks! :)

[JohnHoper]

Your sexuality depends on what gender you prefer most to be your partner. If you fantasize about guys and not with girls than, you know, most likely your inner thoughts are telling you that you like men. Next time you look at a considerably random good looking girl and a random good looking guy, ask yourself who would you rather sit next to for a long period of time. :)

[tyler007]

Cuddling is one of my favourite things to do. i love to cuddle with my bf, best friends, and girls. Cuddling is awesome and i like to snuggle at night to, with who ever is sleeping next to or with me: its supper fun and does no have to be sexual

[Coolboi]

It's all good eather way just have fun finding out an good luck

[smitty35]

From what I read, I think that you are not gay. You are either bi or str8 curious. And I am leaning more towards str8 curious for you.

[HOLEinyoursoul]

From my point of view there's no straight, gay, bi or anything. Sexuality is so much more complicated than that. Do what you want. Act on a whim, just make sure you won't be hurting yourself or others emotionally.

[Drew7]

i don't think it's bad at all. you're not hurting anyone. Maybe you are just curious about it, but don't have a way to act on it? Or your afraid to act on it? Anyway, I think if we aren't hurting anyone, it's more than okay. How do we know we like something, we have to try it first.

Now don't get me wrong, I'm only 13 and I've done some stuff, but there's a lotta stuff I want to try or I'm curious about, but I'm afraid to act on it. Idk, maybe my fear is keeping me out of trouble? Some days I'm braver than other days around girls and with my friends. Idk what that's about. So maybe you act on it when you feel like it and if you don't feel like it, don't. As guys, we're risk takers.

[RoseyCadaver]

You might be gay,only you know.It sounds to me you might be a little gay(i think everyone is a little both)but only you know.I think if you wanna date a guy,then it seals the deal :D but hey like said,only YOU know!Good Luck and just have fun with who you want and don't worry about silly labels that man gave people so our brain could try to understand them better ^_^!

[amigo93]

Hey like someone said, it's the emotional attraction that counts. I might be physically attracted to a guy, but I could only see myself seriously, emotionally attracted to a girl.