worried about looks

[panthersbaseball]

so i was like in love with this girl and she seemed to really like me and i think she wouldent date me because i am a little over weight and after that i cant stop hateing my self but do girls really care that much

[anonymous53]

Only the ones not worth the time care a bunch about looks. If you're extremely worried try exercising, you'll feel better about yourself :)

[Great Perhaps]

If the girl cares about your looks, it's not really a good connection. looks are no basis for any relationship.

[Sage]

If your weight makes you feel bad, then go do something about it.

[Iron Man]

so i was like in love with this girl and she seemed to really like me and i think she wouldent date me because i am a little over weight and after that i cant stop hateing my self but do girls really care that much

If a girl forms her opinion on your looks, and not your personality, then she obviously isn`t ment for you. Don`t change yourself for somebody else. If they are attracted to you, then it should be for your personality.

[JaiBrazier]

If a girl is bothered about weight or looks then they're probably not good for you. If someone loves you, it should be for who you are not because you're a little over weight or because of what you look like.
In my opinion if you love someone or if someone loves you, it should be because you love them for who they are.

Stop hating yourself. If she was only bothered about your looks, she's not good enough for you.

[The Madness.]

If your weight makes you feel bad, then go do something about it.

Well this, pretty much. You seem to have low self confidence because of your weight, change that.


Some girls care and some don't. It's not called being shallow or anything, just people have different preferences. If a girl doesn't like you because of your weight, then you just need to meet a girl that doesn't care and that likes you as much as you like them.

[ShaneK]

if ya gonna change do it for you and no one else. She obviously values looks above everythin else - so she aint da one for you.

Theres plenty of other girls - so dont worry about it.