How can I stop feeling like this?

[tak011]

The other night, my girlfriend of two years got drunk at a party that I wasn't at. Normally I'm there to stop her from getting too silly. But this time, she decided to take her top off (still wearing bra). Also, during a game of "Never Have I Ever", she revealed some secrets about our sex life, which I thought were private and secret to us, and now the entire of our friend group knows. She told me the morning after when she came over, and understandably I was angry and upset. She cried, telling me she was sorry. I have forgiven her, really I have, but I still can't help but feel angry and upset, even though it's been almost a day. I've been talking to her, and I really don't want to be angry with her any more. Any advice as to how I can stop feeling like this?

[anonymous53]

Truthfully, you have every right to be angry. If she knows she can't handle her alcohol then she shouldn't drink. I'd be more angry about her taking her top off, but that's just me. Anger will subside when it subsides

[tak011]

I know. I am angry about that, probably more than what she said. I don't want to push her away by being angry, I just love her so much, and she's really sorry, and feels bad enough already. I'm just hoping it'll subside by morning.

[SuperSuraj]

Truthfully, you have every right to be angry. If she knows she can't handle her alcohol then she shouldn't drink. I'd be more angry about her taking her top off, but that's just me. Anger will subside when it subsides

Yeah, you'll get over it eventually. You def have the right to be mad, but i think you'll get over everything pretty soon. This will be a good test on how strong your relationship is.

[Aeroflux17]

Well.. let it be ..

Time is the healing salve of this situation.

Perhaps Lesson Learned on both you.

(You) Control your girl for being intoxicated.
(GF) Secrets are born to be Secrets.

[charlie grey]

You have every right to feel how you do. It is such a shame that this occurred two years into the relationship. However, you should also appreciate that this reveals another side to your partner, one you may not have observed. Before committing yourself to her any further, use what you have learned to ask yourself if you could handle it happening again. Because if it happened once, it can happen twice.

However, be forgiving. You two clearly love each other enough to allow that.

[JohnHoper]

This is where the definition of love comes in. An old married couple of 75yrs. there would be at least a time they've hated each other. But, its not only the liking of each other that kept them together. Its love, commitment. When you realize this, you'll soon know what to feel. :)