What do i do.....

[xGodsMinionx]

theres this girl at my school her names leanne, we found out we liked each other through my friend amanda, well her other friend jessie and i started talkin and we got really into each other n leanne told me she just wanted to be friends, well me n jessie kinda broke away from each other n now leanne's really regretting telling me that cuz she wants to be more than friends which i do too, but shes like pure as in never done anything, she told me she wants me to be her 1st kiss but i dont know if shes just saying that cuz shes confused or what, but im scared to date her becuz ive fingered n ate out a girl b4 and the girli dated after that i wanted to do it with her but i only fingered her, but ANYWAYS back on topic, if i date leanne i know im gonna wanna finger her maybe more and i know she doesnt wanna go that far so what do i do? i need some help from both guys n girls so everyone feel free to post


and if it makes any difference im 16 yah thanks everyone who helps

[thesphinx]

Ok well if you really love her and want to be in a relationship together then you need to do what your
BOTH comfortable with and if you dont want to be in a relationship with her if she doesn't want to do stuff like that then it doesn't sound like you really love her.
if you really love her than you will have to wait till she is ready :)

[Sapphire]

You both want to be in a relationship together so there shouldn't be an issue. To not go out with her purely because you can't have any sexual intimacy sounds a bit shallow. Go out with her, respect her wishes and have a great time with her. It's not all about sex. That may be what you are preoccupied with due to hormones etc. But there is more to relationships than sex.

[xGodsMinionx]

You both want to be in a relationship together so there shouldn't be an issue. To not go out with her purely because you can't have any sexual intimacy sounds a bit shallow. Go out with her, respect her wishes and have a great time with her. It's not all about sex. That may be what you are preoccupied with due to hormones etc. But there is more to relationships than sex.


trust me i know there are more to realtionships than sex, i dont wanna have sex yet, i just like doin the small stuff...

[iluvlamp1414]

first of all... you stupid if you wont date her cuz you want to finger her. if you really care about her then you would wait for the time to come. dont be a pansy. just go out with her and i bet if you get her first kiss then she will want to be with you more. just go with the flow bro ;)