For Bi and Gay Guys

[seanyboy15]

Hi. Im still curious about my sexuality. If you are for sure bi or gay, how did you just decide that this is what you want?

[grstl]

My first wet dream was about guys doing stuff. My first experimenting was with a guy at 12. My first first time. With a girl was later. I found the girl time much less satisfying, a little stressful (I was trying to act straight to fit everyone's religious idea of who I should be), and then there were the consequences....a kid. I LOVE my kid and my girlfriend still wants to be with me even though we have decided I am pretty much gay. She is still my best friend. But I am mostly gay.

I don't know, but I think I would go by deep urges, wet dream content, and experimenting to see what is totally satisfying to determine sexuality if I were you. Just be aware it kind of evolves and may change. Just don't stress. Enjoy safely learning you.

[Fact]

:arrow2: Sexuality

[Aussie16]

I am Bi and realised I was when I realised I had sexual attraction to both guys and girls. I am still not 100% sure but thats what made me think I was almost definitely Bi :)

[Great Perhaps]

i'm definitely gay. and don't really think that I decided that it's what I wanted, more that I realized who I am. looking back, I can see that i've always been gay. but I realized over the last summer. I just don't feel right in romantic relationships with girls. it doesn't work. but with guys, it always feels right.

[MacMilker]

when feelings for the same sex go beyond a sexual thing

I honestly think its when you find guys attractive, and think about kissing them, and being with them.

Youll know when you come to that point in your life

[SamB]

Well tbh its not something I chose or "decided" to be but I just realized that I was attracted to men for a long while I thought i was gay but then realized that Im not so I was like "oh I'm bi" and yer but if you are having both emotional and psychical attraction to both men and women or just men then i would say you are gay or bi but it is only you who can tell yourself don't let anyone tell you you are or aren't you should only take what we say into consideration while you think about what you actually are.

Hope this helps

[zackm]

I'm foresure bi and I realized it when I started not being able to walk down the men's underwear asile with out looking at the packages and thinking HOTT!. Also I realized this whe I kiss a boy and actually started likeing him..... a lot. So, there's nothing wrong with being gay or bi, it's who you are. Like GaGa says, "I'm beautiful in my own way, 'cause God makes no mistakes", which means you're you and be YOU!! Lol.

[ShatteredWings]

Reminder, please no story telling on this site, thank you.

[Starlight Blaze]

I realized AND accepted I was gay after meeting my boyfriend. I thought I was but was never really sure, and I didn't want to be until I met Tommy <M&T3

[rifka_minaj]

okay..so random question..im 18 and my boifrandd is only 17. i can get into gay bars as for him he cannot. he tells me im only aloud to dance widd my girlfrands while im there. or else "its over". but then i find out him and his ex hang out everytime i go. and they always end up watchin *porn* and j/o together..and when i try to talk to him about it he gets real defensive. how should i handle this situation? should i just stop going out and having fun just so he'll stopp basically cheating on me every other weekend?? please help. ii lovee diis boii. ):

[Fishes]

i decided to be bi cause i llike girls, but theres also a crush of mine that i like emotionally