how can anybody do that?

[qwertyuioplkjhgfdsa]

i HATE the fact that some grown adult's can be so cold hearted that they could betray a child's innocence and abuse them, either physically, sexually or mentally. It fucking makes me mad! It hurts my heart knowing that i can't personally do anything about the things that some children are going through now, although i don't personally know of anybody that is being abused (that i know of), i know that it happens, and it should be stopped. One day, i hope to help these children with the issues they are dealing with, help them overcome their twisted abuse that they have lived with and help them see a better side of life. A life where they can be free and live a happy childhood as apposed to being held in the hands of abuse. I wish to become a social worker, this is for sure my life's mission, specializing in children and helping them escape from issues that nobody should have to experience. Why would anybody wish to hurt a child? It doesn't made sense to me, their vulnerable yes, but their vulnerability should not be taken advantage of, it should be respected to allow them to grow in to a confident young adult.

That it all...


I was just angry and needed to let it out :P

sorry :)

[MadManWithaBox]

Because some people are just really fucked up. Or mad. Or both. From experience. I'm not sure which one my father was. Judging by how he acted, I think he just hated me.

[MattVon]

I fail to understand why anyone must resort to violence of any level, most of child abuse... It's just mind blowing, although everyone does what they do for what ever reason, but there's certainly no reason behind abusing a child It makes me sick how people think they can do what they want, and sexual abuse... Just revolting, I wish you the best of luck with your mission, and I hope every child that'll come under the wings of your care are grateful and succeed in life because of you.

[Syvelocin]

Don't mistake me for supporting the wrong end, but usually the abuser has their own problems as well. A lot of people who do abuse others were abused or neglected themselves to start. I don't know why that is, but some victims of this stuff grow up to do the exact same. A lot do it, not only because of this, but it helps a lot, that they abuse drugs or alcohol. In my case, my aunt would get so bladdered she could barely speak, and that's when she'd hit me. And sometimes, they're just screwed in the head, or like Matt said, they hate the child enough to want to do that. It's hard to understand, why someone would want to do that to a child, but there's always something on the other end as well. Which doesn't make it correct, but it makes them human.

[Spook]

I agree with Rith. I think that the abuser might have been abused at a young age and they thought that that is how people are supposed to act.

[Nevermore]

It's a cycle. An abusive parent was usually abused themselves and thinks that it's deserved and the correct way of parenting. Break the cycle!

[MadManWithaBox]

I still don't think the abuse victim turning into the abuser justifies frankly. But maybe I'm a bit bitter.

[Syvelocin]

I don't think anything justifies abusing someone, no. But it's an interesting concept. You'd think abuse victims were less likely than non-abuse victims to turn into an abuser themselves.

[MadManWithaBox]

Maybe its a revenge thing? Maybe they think, I got this, so my kid should get it?Why should I suffer this and not my kid?

Although my dads mum is one of the nicest people ever. And I've asked her, and loads of people, and she never even touched him violently, not once, and was just a great mum. So I don't know about him.

[Syvelocin]

I don't know, I just can't imagine even putting a hand on a kid to discipline them, let alone abuse them :/ If anything, it's given me more opposition to it. Though I don't want kids anyway :P

[MadManWithaBox]

No me neither, the disciplining or the kids :P My mum's said to me her mum used to give a slap when she was younger. I don't think it was hard though.

[Wintergirl_80.0]

sexual abusers are sex deprived bastards. It is effing SICK!!!! alot of the time the kids are younger than six. I was four. It still hurts me. But imma do something bout it. Im gonna take something so painful so awful and make something good from it. Im gonna speak out agianst it!!!!! I AM STRONG! IS THERE ANY ONE ELSE WHO WANTS SPEAK OUT? Im going to start a web sight eventualy. then go from there. im gonna fight agianst it till the day i die.

[sarah newman]

Yeah a parent could of been an abuser which could of changed there child but I think that cycle should be broken. Some people are just plain sick. Sorry but I know the person who abused me didn't come from an abusive family as I knew his brother from school. He has changed my life and I think they should rot in hell. Sorry if that seems harsh but I'm not gonna hide how I feel- I have had my Confidence and privacy taken away from me and I have to wake up each day knowing he's still out there.

[georgiamay]

Please don't bump old threads. :locked: