well my cousin just told my worst nightmare about my sexuality..........

[lenny774]

dumb bitch, any advice on killing the situation

[anonymous53]

Erm, a few more details please?I'm not sure what happened or the reaction to what happened.

[lenny774]

she told a doushce bag from my church about my sexuality, hes now proceeded to drill me on it. im so fucking annoyed.

[anonymous53]

Well, now you're out. Tell him to get used to it because you aren't going anywhere.

[lenny774]

thats the thing. im still mostly closeted......

[restricted NA]

that was really messed up for your cousin to out you , but i suppose the damage is done and all you can do is embrace it i suppose. It's very difficult to be closeted when someone dropped the bomb. So good luck , hope it helped some what :)

[TurboDieselBandit]

Austentheoyster is absolutely right. Sometimes were pushed into the water before we're ready to swim. Well I think we both know your pretty much in the water now, so whats your next move?, if you back down and climb out the water you'll still be wet, so to speak, because he already knows your secret. I say you take that little ignorant fool head-on as well as the kid who can't keep a secret. Don't retreat by attempting to cover up who you are. You don't need their stamp of approval; you don't owe them crap!

[smitty35]

Austentheoyster is absolutely right. Sometimes were pushed into the water before we're ready to swim. Well I think we both know your pretty much in the water now, so whats your next move?, if you back down and climb out the water you'll still be wet, so to speak, because he already knows your secret. I say you take that little ignorant fool head-on as well as the kid who can't keep a secret. Don't retreat by attempting to cover up who you are. You don't need their stamp of approval; you don't owe them crap!

^^^I like this!^^^

I agree with all of his points and his sensory image and logical appeal. I think that you are faced with a choice now? Stay in the water or get out? If you are tired of hiding, then I think that you should stay in the water. If you dont want anyone to know, then I think that you should climb out.

Its up to you.....

[lenny774]

i decided to climb out just for now because im still not totally comfortable with the situation. ill get back in later on. plus i guess im just dipping my feet right now as ive come out to my entire group of friends. this (insert literary device here) really helped make sense of it all. thnx peeps

[JohnHoper]

The more you get angered by the problem, the more people are gonna drill ya on it. Don't feed the problem, just say "so what." And move on with your life. Your still you even after people know your secret.

[Rayquaza]

tell him its none of his business. cause its none of his business.

[lenny774]

i got help at the lgbt group i go to. thnx to both help on here and help from the group i feel a lot better