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[lilmandrewl]

in pe today i kind of noticed i started crushing on guys to and i am turning bi, and i dont know if i should tell my friends or if i should keep it personal...im so confused of what to do...can someone plz giv me ther opinion on this?

[DouggyO.o]

woah woah woah, slow down, is this first time you have done it, because you could just be curious. Saying your bi take a little bit to determain. so dont go jumping into a conclusion, give it time.

[mRojas2000]

Maybe you are just curious

[Sapphire]

Chances are you are just curious. Give it a bit of time before you say "I'm bi"

[lilmandrewl]

i did give it time and its not curiosity, im not checking them out im crushing on 'em...

[Coesistere]

this question always seems 2 pop up every second here dont it, lol;)
once again, give it time, ill take a while before u find out fully what ur sexuality is. how old are u any way??:confused:

~matthew:D ~

[thesphinx]

i did give it time and its not curiosity, im not checking them out im crushing on 'em...


you really have to wait until your out of puberty cause your body is changing so much and it is a natural part of growing up to be curious so just give it some time.

[JoshDude]

Yeh it could take a fair amount of time before you fully undertsand your own sexuality. Give it some more time and then see how you really feel.

[chuckroast]

woah woah woah, slow down, is this first time you have done it, because you could just be curious. Saying your bi take a little bit to determain. so dont go jumping into a conclusion, give it time.

hey man, im bi...it took me over a year to truely know it. if you not sure, dont tell your friends, you dont know how thry'll react, so be careful to not say someting till you know it.

please pm me if you have any questions, cause i have been there man, hang in there, you'll figure it out with time.

[Zazu]

in pe today i kind of noticed i started crushing on guys to and i am turning bi, and i dont know if i should tell my friends or if i should keep it personal...im so confused of what to do...can someone plz giv me ther opinion on this?

Well, it's your decision if you want to tell your friends. And it's your decision if you want to be bi or straight.

And sorry to ask an igronant question, but what do you mean by 'crushing'?

[Aηdy]

Well, it's your decision if you want to tell your friends. And it's your decision if you want to be bi or straight.

And sorry to ask an igronant question, but what do you mean by 'crushing'?
I think he means like when you have a 'crush' on a girl, like whem you keep looking at them, and you like them.

[kivaa]

you dont "turn" bisexual....youre BORN straight, gay, or bisexual

[greenwise]

yall; if he thinks hes not curious; and he knows hes bi
then hes not curious; hes bi.
lol. quit trying to tell him hes just curious ;]

But idk; sometimes telling your friends is going too far; unless you have known that you are bi for a while. because sometimes you do end up losing bi-ness =P

[Sapphire]

you dont "turn" bisexual....youre BORN straight, gay, or bisexual

Bollocks.

I do not believe that I was "born" as a bisexual. It is a part of my personality that has developed over time. No one is "born" hetrosexual, bisexual or homosexual. If we were then gays would find themselves ALWAYS to be only attracted to guys, lesbians would ALWAYS be only attracted to girls. It doesn't work that way.

[kivaa]

Bollocks.

I do not believe that I was "born" as a bisexual. It is a part of my personality that has developed over time. No one is "born" hetrosexual, bisexual or homosexual. If we were then gays would find themselves ALWAYS to be only attracted to guys, lesbians would ALWAYS be only attracted to girls. It doesn't work that way.
can you prove that? science is currently developing proof that there are chemicals in your brain at BIRTH, that determine sexual orientation...
its the same as hair color....you can be born platinum blonde, but youll still be a brunette when youre older...
when youre born, youre orientation is already tehre, it just may take a while to realize it

yall; if he thinks hes not curious; and he knows hes bi
then hes not curious; hes bi.
lol. quit trying to tell him hes just curious ;]

But idk; sometimes telling your friends is going too far; unless you have known that you are bi for a while. because sometimes you do end up losing bi-ness =P
once again, you cant gain or lose orientation....it may be a phase, but i would not call it losing bisexuality

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

can you prove that? science is currently developing proof that there are chemicals in your brain at BIRTH, that determine sexual orientation...
its the same as hair color....you can be born platinum blonde, but youll still be a brunette when youre older...
when youre born, youre orientation is already tehre, it just may take a while to realize it


once again, you cant gain or lose orientation....it may be a phase, but i would not call it losing bisexuality

no way.. when your 4.. you dont think your gay thats just stupid.. come on.. it can be from the way your treated... how close you are to your friends or whatev..

[sashoma]

ok, if you know you're bi, then you know you're bi, if u say ur bi, and say you're not curious, then you're bi!!!!!

try telling your freinds in private, say, "hey man, i think i'm turning bi" if he laughs or makes fun of u say ur just kidding. (although a tru freind would understand u)

[latedeveloper313]

WAIT! you need to be 100% sure before you come out before you do!

[Sapphire]

First of all kivaa, I stated and believe in the theory of nurture over nature. That is that the way we are brought up primarily shapes how we turn out in later life. Just because you believe in nature over nurture doesn't mean that my belief has any less credibility or lacking in logic. There is proof that most gay males were closer with their mothers when growing up (I'm talking about before the age of eight) and not so close with their fathers.
What is your proof?

[fdsgfg55465]

being curious is alot different than being bi unless you can see yourself marrying and having a life with a guy your not bi/gay

[Cap'nCrunch]

It doesn't necessarily mean you're turning bi, it's just your hormones. It's completely normal for a teenage boy to be curious, jealous, or to experiment with the same sex.

[iluvlamp1414]

this stuff happens all the time... totally normal.