Was it the alcohol....?

[singeramber]

Last night was my step brothers 18th BBQ and he had a few friends over and we sat and played on his xbox (you know the usual) but then all of us got slightly tipsy besides me which I know is bad but by the end I was drunk, I remember it all and have no hangover but I was drunk. We decided to play spin the bottle... my friend at schools older brother was there as he is friends with my step-brother...

I have never had a boyfriend and I'm 16... I'm definitley not preety and defiinatly not skinny but all the boys were complimenting me and looking after me, but then after me and my friends brother kissed, I felt something... so we kinda made out 9 more times... hes got my number and seems fine about since I talked to him this morning, but now everytime I see this one photo from last night I get the butterflies and I cant stop thinking of him :S

Was it the alcohol and me or just the alcohol???

[Azunite]

Alcohol destroys the mind, it was the alcohol.

[restricted NA]

well it's hard to say , alcohol messes with your dopamine and other neurological chemicals so I would say just the the alcohol.

[Aussie16]

Yeah it is hard to say, alcohol messes everything up :(

[Eagle63]

I've only drank for religious reasons, but if you remember the kiss clearly and have a photo of it, I would wait. If the butterflies and cant stop thinking about him are there still for a week after, I say give it a shot. I mean, why not?

[Contra]

I think it was the alcohol that led you to making out with him, but you had an important part too, from what I see from this: "everytime I see this one photo from last night I get the butterflies and I cant stop thinking of him".
You should see if the feelings remain after a while, then you can see if it's worth a shot.

[Aeroflux17]

Blame it on aaaaalcohol. ( in the lyrics of a song)

but i think "its you who falls on the bark of masculine tree"
:)

[singeramber]

I went to another party but I didnt drink and I still had the same feelings but now I think I like his brother who is in my year... :S more confusion!

[Bimmerhead]

You know what they say: A drunk girls lips is a sober girls desire! Your actions may have been more restricted in nature if you stayed sober but is that really a good thing? You had "fun" and there is no shame in it lol. I went out with a girl for 4 months and the first time we met we were drunk at a party lol. I guess its all in how you look at it. The way I see it, your young so have a little fun :)

[Contra]

I went to another party but I didnt drink and I still had the same feelings but now I think I like his brother who is in my year... :S more confusion!

Well, you felt the same way without drinking, I think that is a good sign. But you're the one who can tell if your feelings are more intense towards him or his brother.

[carlitosway]

alcohol=liquid courage

[singeramber]

I was talking to him last night and he deffo doesnt like me back so who cares and I'm sure his brother feels the same way....