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macbox84
April 16th, 2011, 01:10 PM
I was wondering how important are guys looks?

Age:
Looks (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important):
Why:
Peronality (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important):
Why:

scuba steve
April 16th, 2011, 01:20 PM
I was wondering how important are guys looks?

Age:
Looks (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important):
Why:
Peronality (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important):
Why:

Both factors are of extreme importance who would willingly settle for just one if they could help it? You can try and say that you're more deep than the rest of us by saying that personality is all that matters, but your own animal instincts is to look for the most attractive mate you can find. That being said personality can also make a person more attractive to me personally .

briannafrmhell
April 16th, 2011, 02:51 PM
Well i don't only look for guys looks but if im not attracted to a guy why would I even bother. not to be shallow but i would't date the nicest guy in the work with the best personality if i wasn't attracted to him. so , yea looks matter

Craig1995
April 16th, 2011, 03:03 PM
Well i don't only look for guys looks but if im not attracted to a guy why would I even bother. not to be shallow but i would't date the nicest guy in the work with the best personality if i wasn't attracted to him. so , yea looks matter

If I was a girl that's what id say :D

bleedoutlove
April 17th, 2011, 04:04 PM
Age: 13
Looks Somewhat Important
Why: Because...I don't know, I just find attractive people attractive
Peronality Mostly Important
Why: I don't want to date someone who will treat me like shit

Fact
April 18th, 2011, 04:47 AM
Puberty :arrow2: Relationships

How important are guy's looks?

Looks (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important): Mostly Important.
Why: If you're not physically attracted to someone, then you'll lust after those who you are physically attracted to, and that's not fair on someone with just a nice personality.

Peronality (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important): Mostly Important.
Why: There's no use going out with someone that's aesthetically pleasing but you can't have a conversation with.

Both factors are of equal importance and it's better to go for an equal balance or a mixture rather than relying on one or the other to make a decent relationship. That goes for guys and girls in my opinion.

Indecision
April 18th, 2011, 05:04 AM
Age: 14
Looks: Somewhat Important.
Why: I don't want a Guy with massive warts or boils all over him. But I don't mind if he's just a little bit over weight (I prefer it, a little more to cuddle teehee :) ) or if his hair 'isn't the style'.
Personality: Very Important.
Why: I can't stand guys with a weak personality, they're Men and they should be confident around girls, that's how I prefer them. I don't want to be messed around with, it emotionally kills me! ;s.

Syvelocin
April 18th, 2011, 08:16 AM
Age: 19 in May :P
Looks (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important): Not Very Important
Why: I think looks can be part of why you are attracted to someone, definitely, but I'm not physically attracted to guys and have been able to have very good relationships with them regardless
Peronality (Very important, Mostly Important, Somewhat Important, Not Very important): Very Important
Why: Looks have nothing on personality. You think every good-looking person will be able to be a good spouse, or parent if you're into that? Most of VTers might be in school still, but the point of being with someone is having a life-long companion, a friend that's more than a friend but always there. Some jerk athlete (not because he's an athlete, but as well as being an athlete, you get me), but who's attractive still, isn't your best bet for that.

macbox84
April 18th, 2011, 08:22 PM
kool

Shred96
May 8th, 2011, 06:08 PM
Well i don't only look for guys looks but if im not attracted to a guy why would I even bother. not to be shallow but i would't date the nicest guy in the work with the best personality if i wasn't attracted to him. so , yea looks matter

Thank you now i understand why a girl said no to me when i asked her out.

Grayeyes
May 11th, 2011, 09:10 AM
if a guy is drop dead gorgeous. Like, the most gorgeous man i have ever seen, but, he's a douchebag, i won't even try to date him. If he's the ugliest man i have ever seen, but he has the best personality and attitude ever, i would consider but not really be very into him. (you need to be attracted to the person too)
personality for me, wins over looks. But it would be the best if he was good-looking(if not great) and he also has a good personality and attitude. You know, he treats you well. :)

Jennifer's Ashes
May 12th, 2011, 04:57 PM
Your looks are what parks a girl's interest. More "attractive" people are more approachable, they make you want to get to know them. Personality is very important though. Idk about you gals but the whole time I'm talking to a guy I'm going through the checklist. I have really shallow, selective taste. Sorry.

Of course, thats not to say I would never ever date anyone outside my comfort zone.

FullyAlive
May 13th, 2011, 04:04 AM
Age: 16
Looks: Somewhat important.
Why: initially this is usually what first attracts you to a guy so they have to be somewhat attractive to you physically.
Personality: mostly important.
Why: if you are in a relationship then you would be spending a lot of time with the person if they don't have a good personality and aren't someone you like then what's the point?