Shy being naked, getting used to changing?

[Drake14]

Well I am usualy very shy at school and meeting new people. I dont have any brothers or sisters just me. I am 14, but I'm usually not as bad outside school around friends and people I know. I'm like kind of a queit nerdish guy I guess lol. I mean I stick to video games and like Pokemon with friends, but I mean I dont play sports like a lot of friends do.

And I think maybe cause they play sports together theyre not like me and not shy because they must see each other naked a lot but im not used to it. ive seen a lot of my friends naked tho since theyre a lot more out going a lot of times theyd just pull down their pants and show me their penis for fun. They think its funny and im like the heck?? changing with people is a big deal to me tho it makes me so nervous :confused:

I dont feel like its fair Ill have to change in the lockers soon next year for a gym class ill have. That is why im worried i guess i dont want to turn all red and weird doing it. So now i am trying to not be shy and make myself get over it.

While ago when I was at my friends we were in his basement playing video games with 5 of our friends too and classes talk came up. SO i told them gym was soon and i wasnt happy. They asked why and i said because its lame to have to change. they said who cares cause Ive already seen all of them naked before. And I said, ya but you havent seen me. Then my friend Brad I was playing xbox with was like ok so show us. And I was like no way! then he said ok well how about if I beat u in this game u have to show us. Well I wanted to say No again but remembred I need to calm down and get used to it so I said well okay. I guess I thought Id beat him and win anyway but I didnt. Then he says ok show us yours, but instead of doing it myself I just told him to do it for me. So I stood up and then he unzipped my pants, pulled them down and pulled down my underwear. It wasnt as bad as I expected i guess but I did turn really red, I hate that. Now I feel like its not as bad it was hard to get used to the idea first time I guess. And I feel like it will be easier now eventualy to be normal. At least for me.

Im hoping ill be ok next year and get through it all. How do shy people like me usually get over it or deal with not caring with stuff like changing? thx Id be pretty emarassed to talk to ppl irl about it :)

[Young Wolf]

hadthat problem when I was 13 - it took time to get over it but I managed it and it doesnt bother me being naked anymore around guys now. You shouldnt worry at all. Let me know if you wanna chat about it

[smitty35]

Well I can tell how much you dislike being naked/chagine around others, but if its required during gym then you have to. If its necessary to do it then you have to do it.

My advice to you is to just get it over with as fast ask you can. Also, while changing you can only look at yourself and do it not others.

[Rodeo]

I used to have that problem but I just started spending more time naked and by the time I had to at the school it was no big deal and now I love to be naked.

[Quietboy]

I have that problem, I have never been used to change/get naked in front of others(Might be because i'm a very shy person) but once my parents made an agreement that I should just go out and change 10 minutes before the others, maybe that could work for you too?

[tyler007]

Hey its not big deal, i have been changing and showering since the 6th grade... if you are uncomfortable just stay near your friends, and pretty soon you it well be normal for you too. Some kids change really fast, and other take there time, same in the shower, but just hang out with your friends and you well be fine.

[crazycoller]

After the first week, you won't even notice it. Just change and move on. It's not like everyone will stare! Everyone's got the same thing down there.

[steve76]

i have that problem i wish my friends would do that for me but lol i change for gym in my boxers im not nervous in my boxers its just next year imma be a feshman and im gonna play football im just nervous bout the showers

[Drake14]

hadthat problem when I was 13 - it took time to get over it but I managed it and it doesnt bother me being naked anymore around guys now. You shouldnt worry at all. Let me know if you wanna chat about it

Thanks for all the posts to read guys :) Now that u guys made me think more I think maybe my biggest worries were being around my friends. because their so fooling around all the time and giving me crap about being shy, not like them. But maybe in a class strangers wont be like that and wont care? or I wonder if most guys are like my friends. In my head I think its not that big a deal but then when they make it one and mess with me it becomes one you know lol If no one cares i think itll be nothin, I just dont like lots of attention.

After the first week, you won't even notice it. Just change and move on. It's not like everyone will stare! Everyone's got the same thing down there.

I hope ur right but I mean thats exactly what my friends were doing when Brad dared me to show them all. it was the first time they ever got to look at my penis because im more shy then them I guess it made them real curious. Having so much attention to with all them looking at me with my pants and underwear down made me turn all Red even tho I kind of laughed too. Like i said they have done it a lot before to show me theirs, not like i wanted them to or asked but they think its stupid and funny. So I guess partly I felt like i was supposed to because they always do it. But I hope u guys are right and other people in class wont be so caring about what I do and just ignore me haha.

[Joshuaharris]

I was never really that shy cause i have a brother and we were always naked around each other so it was ok. but i have friends that have that problem but we all talked to them like your friends did and we told them that it does get better the more you do it. when they first got naked in the locker room they were really shy but now they are like the rest of us and couldnt care less. lol. do it with people you trust and have seen naked a lot and get used to doing it with them and then do it with people you dont know and then it should feel normal.

[teenageapplelover]

Don't get the idea that all guys like to show their penis to each other, that's a personality thing. Most guys, though, like being naked. Do you not, or is it more your uncomfortable being naked around others?
If you feel like you need to be more comfortable, go to the Y this summer and get used to changing with strangers there. Then it'll be fine with friends.

[Drake14]

Don't get the idea that all guys like to show their penis to each other, that's a personality thing. Most guys, though, like being naked. Do you not, or is it more your uncomfortable being naked around others?
If you feel like you need to be more comfortable, go to the Y this summer and get used to changing with strangers there. Then it'll be fine with friends.

Hm ya well its like im more comfortable with my friends but just also they make it more difficult in a ways by joking around and making it a big deal with so much attention when its not. otherwise i can kinda handle it but the attention and joking gets to me! haha :rolleyes: But probably they like getting bad reactions out of me.

[donkeymkong]

I know some people who are shy about themselves, it's totally normal. I'm not one of those people, I actually really like being naked and don't mind being naked in front of people at all. But you don't need to be nervous, most guys won't say anything, and if they do, ask them why they are so gay looking at your junk. that usually works :)

(not that there's anything wrong with being gay, it's just that most people don't like being called it)

[crazycoller]

I hope ur right but I mean thats exactly what my friends were doing when Brad dared me to show them all. it was the first time they ever got to look at my penis because im more shy then them I guess it made them real curious. Having so much attention to with all them looking at me with my pants and underwear down made me turn all Red even tho I kind of laughed too. Like i said they have done it a lot before to show me theirs, not like i wanted them to or asked but they think its stupid and funny. So I guess partly I felt like i was supposed to because they always do it. But I hope u guys are right and other people in class wont be so caring about what I do and just ignore me haha.

The reason that they all stared was because you're all friends and you were a spectacle at the time... their whole point was for you to show them so of course they were going to stare... in the locker room it probably won't happen though because they're (probably) not going to be daring you to show it off... just don't worry about it. Eventually you will be like them in regards to being relaxed about it

[jtdjtyjt]

guys if none of u have seen a penis im open and we can talk and show each other im not very confident either so just message me

[tpzy94]

nah i still dont like changin in front of people idk why but i just dont

[Luke91]

The first time showering at school was the hardest. After 2 or 3 times and everyone has seen everyone else, you don't think anything about it. Just don't be one of those who hides in the stalls. They are the ones that get made fun of. Bet you heart was pounding when you friend pulled your underwear down.

[JoshPagan]

I hated it too when I was in P.E. But don't worry about it too much. Just ask the teacher if you can change somewhere else.

[JohnHoper]

Well, I used to be like that to, I would change my shirt in the bathroom stalls(mind this was in 6th grade). But I finally decided to take a chance and chage in where everyone else changed... I changed and looked around, no one stared or care and I was still alive. Just remember that insecurity can be more embarrassing that being just yourself :)

[Justice]

Yeah Dude, I think its weird being naked with other guys

[SWMG]

You just have to be confident of yourself and keep calmed