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restricted NA
April 14th, 2011, 09:21 PM
I have had a friend or a person i thought was my friend and i found out on facebook that he had a party and didn't invite me, saw conversations of the event from all my other friends. I just feel left out of everything, I'm never mean to anyone and still people just walk all over me. Lets just say i have a very bad trust issue i have been lied to and lied to and im tired of it. What have i ever done to anyone ? So I have chosen to ignore him, and perhaps not hang out with anyone at school, if you don't know anyone you won't get hurt in the end. At least i have VT :whoops:

anonymous53
April 14th, 2011, 09:29 PM
That really stinks, but you might just be overreacting a tiny bit :) These things happen all the time. Talk to him about it.

restricted NA
April 14th, 2011, 09:53 PM
hmm perhaps, I still will most likely never fully trust him.

anonymous53
April 14th, 2011, 09:57 PM
I don't trust anyone either. I believe a lot of people are like that.

Aeroflux17
April 14th, 2011, 11:22 PM
Well .. Ask him why he didnt invited you to the party? organized by him.?
then if his explanation didnt go to your expected answer..

he is not a worthy friend. dont worry dude.. we are here.. and ME! :)

lets call this as a rebound :)

Ambrosia
April 14th, 2011, 11:23 PM
That stuff happens. People used to walk all over me when I was in middle school. They would bully me, be very cruel to me, not invite me out, and so on. When I started high school I became a very mean, bitchy person. I have friends now. But only because they think I'm scary and find me fascinating...It's not recommended. You should talk to him about it first, before you seclude yourself and let it take over your life.

restricted NA
April 15th, 2011, 12:45 AM
haha thanks

Aeroflux17
April 15th, 2011, 12:47 AM
so you know now how to deal with it. :) hoping.....

JoshPagan
April 15th, 2011, 08:57 AM
I know how you feel. I feel like I was betrayed by a friend because I'm not Christian. I'm in a different Religion and his family thinks is Satanism, but they have no idea how wrong they are. He believe his Mother over me. But I suppose that understandable since that's his Mother. But hopefully he will learn one day.

restricted NA
April 15th, 2011, 04:00 PM
seems a little more serious than my problem religion vs a party :D

moon_lit_angel
April 15th, 2011, 04:16 PM
thats crap that you feel that way :(

restricted NA
April 15th, 2011, 04:18 PM
thanks so much support here :D

jason_smitty
April 15th, 2011, 07:52 PM
you sound cool, time to make some new friends dude

Compy386
April 16th, 2011, 11:18 PM
Well then you probably should not be their friend if they are exclusive. What I do is make them feel like you are superior to them in some way to make them jealous. Are you stronger? Taller? Smarter? If so, and he is not including you, than make him/her feel powerless, and assert your elf as superior. Kind of primal, I know, but it works.

restricted NA
April 16th, 2011, 11:23 PM
you sound cool, time to make some new friends dude

Thanxs :)

Well then you probably should not be their friend if they are exclusive. What I do is make them feel like you are superior to them in some way to make them jealous. Are you stronger? Taller? Smarter? If so, and he is not including you, than make him/her feel powerless, and assert your elf as superior. Kind of primal, I know, but it works.

Good plan maybe I'll try that :D

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