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Spock
April 14th, 2011, 04:55 PM
ok so a friend from school today told me that for the past 9 years he has been thinking of switching sexes because he knows in his heart that he is a girl. Now he asked me if i would support him and i said yes because i thought he was joking but then later to day we started passing notes i found to realize he is serious. I told him he should think hard and deep before he tells his parents his plan. he said he has found information and is ready to tell his parents about it. Is this normal( i no it isnt) but do u think he will move on or do you think he will actually ask for it to be done. He has already started to find new names and clothes but idk what should i do? just sit there and be supportive? Tell some one who will help him? Or see if he will actually do it?:what:

restricted NA
April 14th, 2011, 05:10 PM
If your his true friend then you will support him, sorry to say when it comes to gender someone usually doesn't out grow it because. Every person when their just a fetus actually have the mind of a girl. As they develop say into a boy or girl the body changes and the mind to fit that gender. So your friend has developed the body of a boy but his mind stayed in its original female form. Just support him , i don't believe anything can change his mind. It's not his fault i suppose just genes and D.N.A.

anonymous53
April 14th, 2011, 05:38 PM
Support him if you're really his friend. It'll be hard for him and he'll need good friends. If you are completely against this and unable to accept it, don't be his friend. It's quite simple

smitty35
April 14th, 2011, 08:32 PM
If you are his real friend, then support him. He just isnt happy with the way he is and thats ok. Some people think sex changes are wrong and whatnot. I think that they are fine.

tyler007
April 14th, 2011, 08:52 PM
Yea i think you just have to support him in this,, it might just be a phase, and it might not. But reguardless if he goes thru with it he is going to need good/ great freinds to help him (her) make the adjustments.

Aeroflux17
April 14th, 2011, 09:03 PM
If you are a Real Friend to him. just support him. thats all.

Spock
April 14th, 2011, 09:52 PM
well i dont care about the sex change i just never was a close friend to him ontell now so it is kinda weird for him to tell me this stuff but iam going to start being a better friend to him

Aeroflux17
April 15th, 2011, 12:43 AM
well i dont care about the sex change i just never was a close friend to him ontell now so it is kinda weird for him to tell me this stuff but iam going to start being a better friend to him

yeah men.! Hope im one of your friends too.:yes:

SuperTgirlTaylor
April 15th, 2011, 11:10 PM
Thanks Peoples Im the guy he was talking about the name i chose is Autumn and i want this surgery as soon as possible but that doesn't mean i cant wait just dont want to wait too long. To all of you who think this is a phase its not, especially if ive started to feel this way around the age of five.

Thanks, Dominic/Autumn