Ashamed but needing help

[mr_smite1]

Some of you may remember me, i havent been on here for a while, as my life has sorta sorted itself out(apart from my dad dieing) and i havent been motivated to come on here, Howeve i need help with this girl :$ I shall refer to her as Blackadder. I used to go out with her for about 2 years, howeve during that period we didnt even kiss. Now I have been sappish and sent me feelings to her in a letter and an e-mail, under a psudo-name. She knows that I have thought about her literally every moment of every day. Now I think that if i just ask her out again, then she will reject me. I need to get back with her, i am not obsessed BTW, but she is the thing that you can jack off too, and I think the problem with the last realtionship was that i didnt do anything. Help me ask her out, thanks.

Quick post to say thanks for the 23 views but no help. If you view a post, it is common courtesy to say something.


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[Hyper]

Wtf should anyone say.. Ask her out then? And if she does accept then perhaps do something more in the correct pace..

[mr_smite1]

i knew it, the place i thought i could be helped, i was just shunned. I guess im on my own once more

[Elscire]

i would ask her out again, its tough to just sit there thinking about her but not do anything. i would do all i can to get her back. though robin, i envy you! European girls are so much better than Americas girls here in millions of ways, their attitudes/personality is what i admire most.

[Hyper]

Dont lie the Europeans are turning too.. Into the American dream.. The girls in my school 80% of them just act to be stupid.. They smoke and all other stupid things but I suppose its that age to be a stupid little girl

[mr_smite1]

Well the girl I like, she dosent smoke, and she is catholic.....(i dunno if thats good or bad....as i have a blasphemous e-mail :P) I guess I just dont have courage to say it too her face! Should i ask her over msn? Or would that be bad?

[Hyper]

Definately not ask her in real life as in face to face and in a good moment and place.. As in not when shes in a bad mood etc..

[RowanVer.3.0]

but she is the thing that you can jack off too,.
Haha, that made me laugh :P

Anyway, there's 2 options:
1) Ask her out
2) Don't ask her out
Remember worst she can do is say no.

You decide.

[mr_smite1]

worst she can do is reject me, then spread some secrets around, get my friends to hate me and then get me beaten up by some burly boys :(

[mRojas2000]

If she was that bad to do that if she ever said no, why would you wanna be with her??

[mr_smite1]

she is the thing you can jack off to

Thats why, and she has helped my out alot inmy life.

[iluvlamp1414]

just go for it. step outside your comfort zone a little bit. it will do wonders for the relationship.