touching? Girls please help me!

[eacphoenix]

I love my girlfriend and she loves me. But want to touch her (don't see this the wrong way i mean like putting my arm around her and stuff like that.) i have had a friend who Is a girl and she had a boyfirend, (this was before me and my GF) and she confronted me and asked me to talk to her boyfriend for her, she said that she was unconfertable with him touching her and putting her arm around her. (not sure why) and she started crying as she was telling me this. he would rub her leggs and forcefully pull her twards her and stuff like that. and now I guess that tramatized me form holding my GF and putting my arms around her. Plz girls i need you advice on weather you like being held or not.

[Glasgow]

Just ask her if she wants to "cuddle"

And also, how old are you?

[Sapphire]

Yea, a better word to use would be "cuddle" instead of "touch". She may get the wrong idea if you say "can i touch you?" lol

Girls are normally fine when it comes to cuddles and stuff. In the case of your friend it may have been that he was very full on and always moving her when she was perfectly comfy and content just sitting on her own for a bit. My last bf would never let me sit on my own chair or have my own personal space. This may have been the case with your friend and her bf. As I said, girls are normally fine with it. Just too much can be almost suffocating.

[eacphoenix]

Just ask her if she wants to "cuddle"

And also, how old are you?

I'm 15

[andrew810]

well, if it seems like a bad idea, it might probably be one, but just ask her and instead of saying "touch" say hold hands, snuggle, or somethin' like that, because if you two bare sitting in a movie theatre or your room or somethin then you say "can i touych you" she will probably yell rape and jab yer' eyes out

[Love.Hate]

I would say something other to "touch" as well it may be taken the wrong way.
As a girl I can see peoples point, I'm not the most touchy-feely person In the world. A hug Is nice though. Plus holding hands Is really good, it makes me feel protected? If that makes any sense. So yeah.. Just ask her, I'm sure she will be fine with it :)

[1_21Guns]

please do not bump old threads :locked: