Bisexual

[jrl719]

Does it make sense to you that I'm gay... But curious of the opposite gender? Like I get it, but I don't? And now, I'm super confused!

[Tristin.]

YES!!!!

im gay, im sure iam, but i want to try sex with a girl. so at times i start to think im not gay, just camp straight, or bi, hen i get confused and ugh :S kwam? :/ x

[Fruit_Tart.]

Hahaha. I get it. Don't confuse yourself. :P You're curious to experiment with girls, like a guy would naturally be curious with boys. Since your gay you're more curious of girls. :) Don' confuse yourself, you can get hurt. X)

[jrl719]

YES!!!!

im gay, im sure iam, but i want to try sex with a girl. so at times i start to think im not gay, just camp straight, or bi, hen i get confused and ugh :S kwam? :/ x

Haha yeah, I have a crush on one of my best girl friends, when I have clearly determined I'm gay! Like wtff?

[Tristin.]

Haha yeah, I have a crush on one of my best girl friends, when I have clearly determined I'm gay! Like wtff?

no crushes here lol just want to try it lol o see if im not gay lol
i dont know, im just gonna date who i want lol :P

[TopGear]

Im straight, I'm a bit concerned that you have labeled yourself at such a early age. I mean, its not extremely early or anything, but I think you have alot of growing and a lot of changing to do in the next 5-6 years. All from appearances to what you think and how you act. Only you know, and I can't tell you what you are, but let yourself grow to be what you want to be! When you get older you will know what you are and then you can label yourself accordingly.

~TopGear

[jrl719]

Im straight, I'm a bit concerned that you have labeled yourself at such a early age. I mean, its not extremely early or anything, but I think you have alot of growing and a lot of changing to do in the next 5-6 years. All from appearances to what you think and how you act. Only you know, and I can't tell you what you are, but let yourself grow to be what you want to be! When you get older you will know what you are and then you can label yourself accordingly.

~TopGear

Haha I know for a fact that I'm into men, I've known it for awhile, I just haven't accepted it. I know I do have some growing to do, but I'm mature enough to know what I want :-D And I want guys hahaha

[jrl719]

Hahaha. I get it. Don't confuse yourself. :P You're curious to experiment with girls, like a guy would naturally be curious with boys. Since your gay you're more curious of girls. :) Don' confuse yourself, you can get hurt. X)

I'm a natural blonde, I get hurt by confusion everyday haha!

[Tristin.]

I'm a natural blonde, I get hurt by confusion everyday haha!

ZOMG, welcome to my world kwam

[Fruit_Tart.]

I'm a natural blonde, I get hurt by confusion everyday haha!
Hahahahaha!!! XD Well... Protect yourself then. :P Just kidding... ;)

[TopGear]

Haha I know for a fact that I'm into men, I've known it for awhile, I just haven't accepted it. I know I do have some growing to do, but I'm mature enough to know what I want :-D And I want guys hahaha

Thats good! maybe things will change, or maybe not. let things play out and who knows!

Hope I've helped! :)

[Tristin.]

im also like really clumsy sometimes :/ i walk into things alot....

[jrl719]

Hahahahaha!!! XD Well... Protect yourself then. :P Just kidding... ;)

I have my friends to help me out with me epic fail blonde moments!

im also like really clumsy sometimes :/ i walk into things alot....

Don't even talk to me about being clumsy! I fall UP the stairs at least twice every day!


Thats good! maybe things will change, or maybe not. let things play out and who knows!

Hope I've helped! :)

Haha you have, thanks :-D

[Fruit_Tart.]

im also like really clumsy sometimes :/ i walk into things alot....
You protect yourself, too! :P

Hahahaha. I'm afraid of running into guys so I practically fall everytime I walk past a boy, just so I can give them some space to walk. :$

[HikaruTheHunter]

Hmm I think you just may be (your signature states it) gay curious. Heh. Don't worry too much dude; you'll figure things out. ;)

[Tristin.]

You protect yourself, too! :P

Hahahaha. I'm afraid of running into guys so I practically fall everytime I walk past a boy, just so I can give them some space to walk. :$

im famous for walking into mirrors, door frames, lamposts and 1st years lol

[jrl719]

Hmm I think you just may be (your signature states it) gay curious. Heh. Don't worry too much dude; you'll figure things out. ;)

Yeahh, I most likely will, but I just wanted to see what other people wanted to say, thanks ;-D

[Tristin.]

im pretty sure im gay, just a little curious. you as you say may be gay curious or bi, youll find out eventualy :) hell, for 3 years im been sure im gay until last month lol sooo :P

[Infidelitas]

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[jrl719]

im pretty sure im gay, just a little curious. you as you say may be gay curious or bi, youll find out eventualy :) hell, for 3 years im been sure im gay until last month lol sooo :P

Haha, I'm pretty sure that it's just a crush. Deff something I'll get over. I've been out for like a month or two though, so you never know.

[Tristin.]

so youve said your bi?

[jrl719]

so youve said your bi?

Yeah I have been telling people that, because with the exception of her because she's like freaking gorgeous, any "parts" on a girl I find revolting. I've determined that I'm interested in guys, so basically I am gay, with a girl crush haha, yay for non-sensical things!

[Tristin.]

see, i think the "parts" on a girl are just creepy as a rule, but i still want to try it out lol :P and non-sensical-ness is ftw

[jrl719]

see, i think the "parts" on a girl are just creepy as a rule, but i still want to try it out lol :P and non-sensical-ness is ftw

I just find them flat out raunchy haha, and my life is full of non-sensical-ness!

[grstl]

Hey, if it helps, I am on the later side of puberty.......and I am now pretty sure I am gay with a girlfriend and a baby. I have taken a lot of flak for this here on VT. My girlfriend knows and chooses to stay with me and we love the kid toether. I guess I have learned to be bi enough to really satisfy her each time, but other than the feel of breasts and vagina, girl stuff does nothing for me. I think the lower stuff just looks weird and gross.

I started totally gay..Loved who I was but thought I shouldn't be for family and religious reasons. I had some good times trying to be straight, but hated most of it. I am so glad I am now comforttable with being my gay self.....and still get to enjoy my best friend who just happens to be a girl.

After all that...I would say
...don't question your original gayness.
...Feel free to try girl stuff WITH PROTECTION AT ALL TIMES unless you really are ready to be a parent.
...Just be sure she knows you are really gay. Girls have a much bigger emotional, realtional thing with sex.
...Don't label youself or take what others think too seriously.....stress and grief ruins your sex and emotional life.

Enjoy growing up and the evolution of your sexuality. By the way, VT talk and others comments have really helped me. By trying to help others you will also find youself.

[smitty35]

Come on man! You are only 14! I too am unsure of what I am. I dont know 100% for sure. I think it was Donkey, he said that not many people are 100% str8. And he is SO RIGHT. I couldnt agree more with him. Enjoy your teenagehood while you can. And I say you wait until graduating high school or college to label yourself.