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Random3r
April 12th, 2011, 06:35 PM
is there any one else out there that just really wants a partner but it never seems to happen?? im 18 and still a V!!! everyone seems to meet someone but i just dont know how they do it??? any help?? :(

The Madness.
April 12th, 2011, 06:39 PM
V = Virgin?

It'll happen one day. If you rush it, you won't really be completely happy because you most likely won't be with the person who's right for you.

Tristin.
April 12th, 2011, 06:41 PM
you sound like me, im hopeless romantic, i help people with their problems, be they relationship based or not, yet i have only ever held one relationship down for over 2 months. Whatever your thinking, dont despair, you will find a partner, and when you do this person will be perfect for you. and being 18 and still having you V is nothing to be ashamed of, more something to be proud of, your sensible enough now to loose it to someone who matters and not to some random you met at the school dance when you were 16. so just be yourself, have fun and live life, because if you do youll find exactly what you look for, it may just take a little longer :)
x

Random3r
April 12th, 2011, 06:47 PM
Aye thanks for that both your comments are reassuring but i just dont realy have much hope any more :(,, im not a bad guy or wierd in any way,, but i also seem to try and help others with there problems most of the time and just allow mine to stack up ;(

Tristin.
April 12th, 2011, 06:50 PM
i let my problems stack up and stack up and well, it wasnt pretty, iv realised maybe the listeners need to be listened to sometimes, if you want to talk, please dont be scared to contact me :) dont give up hope, once you give up hope, you give up the spark that makes you you. maybe its not you thats "the problem" maybe you just need to be a little more confidant and really be yourself :) x

anonymous53
April 12th, 2011, 06:50 PM
Random, just relax, be yourself. One day someone will come along. Also if you like someone ask them out. If they say yes then good job :D If they say no, there is no problem with having more friends.

Random3r
April 12th, 2011, 06:54 PM
V = Virgin?

It'll happen one day. If you rush it, you won't really be completely happy because you most likely won't be with the person who's right for you.

and yeh V = virgin :(

Jess
April 12th, 2011, 06:59 PM
I have yet to meet someone who is right for me, but I'm really starting to not care anymore. Maybe I'll prefer to stay single...and a uh virgin :S

Random3r
April 12th, 2011, 07:04 PM
thanks for the encouragement :) and i agree that sometimes the listeners need to be listened to but the only thing is we arnt always that good at talkin :(,, i suppose we all have our ups and downs i guess :s and your comments mean alot ;) serioustly thank you

Random3r
April 12th, 2011, 07:10 PM
I have yet to meet someone who is right for me, but I'm really starting to not care anymore. Maybe I'll prefer to stay single...and a uh virgin :S

thats how im starting to feel :( ive never even had a girl friend - god that sounds sad - i mean i joined this site just a few days ago and ive learnt alot so far,, some of the conversations and posts on here are far from the every day stuff that people chat about on fb etc

Memory
April 12th, 2011, 08:46 PM
V = Virgin?


No, V for Vendetta
http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT_0fjkEjBwv9uQGm3I6zen1ksznKs1l_LrDQXXHLmioA_3gR6n&t=1

Kahn
April 12th, 2011, 09:12 PM
Life isn't about sex.

Although life is created through sex.

Aves
April 12th, 2011, 10:56 PM
TWPR :arrow: R&D

Iam.
April 12th, 2011, 11:07 PM
Random3r, i have EXACTLY the same problem and thoughts and it sucks. All i can say is keep your head up mate!

Random3r
April 13th, 2011, 03:00 PM
TWPR :arrow: R&D

whats that mean??? :S

Craig1995
April 13th, 2011, 03:06 PM
I allways want a partner.. But yeah it never happens lol am a bit of a hopeless romantic :/

Random3r
April 13th, 2011, 03:08 PM
thanks mate and well i guess thats all we can do atm ,, maybe something will come up?? i once met this old man through a neighbor on my street and i started doing gardening and stuff for him yno a bit of income and the scairy thing was he was a bit like me,, i mean he had never been married and he was single and he liked the things that i did i.e mechanics and house desighn (like decorating), and most of all he wasent really a drinker. so i tried my best to find out what kind of life he led as to weather i should try to change mine to avoid ending up old and lonley like him and one day i went to his house to do some gardening and the guy tried to pull a move on me.. it really messed up my haid for a while,, i think it might have thrown my confidence all over the place a bit :(

Jess
April 13th, 2011, 03:51 PM
whats that mean??? :S

it's been moved from The White Padded Room, where you originally put it, to Relationships and Dating, where it is now, and where it should be.

Random3r
April 13th, 2011, 04:40 PM
it's been moved from The White Padded Room, where you originally put it, to Relationships and Dating, where it is now, and where it should be.

thanks id have put it there but dint spo it :P

smitty35
April 13th, 2011, 09:03 PM
Life isnt one big race to see who gets laid first. The right time will come for you and for everone. Now everyone wants a partner at one point, so you are not alone.

Random3r
April 15th, 2011, 02:50 PM
im not in the biggest rush to get laid lol,, can't emagine it would harm lol but just kinda want some one :( but like ya say who dosent?? :S

Infidelitas
April 17th, 2011, 06:53 AM
I would like to be in a relationship with a guy, but Im too stubborn to put myself out there to find someone. But everyday, I hope that this will be the day i find someone. Thats what keeps me going

Random3r
April 17th, 2011, 07:35 PM
aye,, well i suppose sometimes its probbably best to find the one insted of having a new partner every nigh,, some people do say less is more ;)

tpzy94
April 17th, 2011, 07:59 PM
dude everything happens for a reason just watch and see itll all work out for you i mean dont follow what everybodys doing cause 18 and a virgin isnt bad at all...least your not a dad or have any diseases right?

Random3r
April 18th, 2011, 08:57 AM
dude everything happens for a reason just watch and see itll all work out for you i mean dont follow what everybodys doing cause 18 and a virgin isnt bad at all...least your not a dad or have any diseases right?

haha when you put it like that dunt sound that bad lol ;)