This sucks!

[Andymoto377]

So I like this girl and she is in a friend with benefits relationship with my best friend who is in love with her and that sucks but this weekend we were all at this party and I was DD this weekend anyways I could tell something was wrong with her but she went out with us anyway at one point I couldn't find her so went looking and I found her in the back yard of the house sitting on like a porch type swing I went over and asked her what's up she looked up and said that nothing was wrong I just nodded and Ok after about a min she told me that she was having family issues (won't go into detail) we where quite for a minute and then she said you scare me sometimes. I was like what! Why? She told me because she finds her self telling me things about herself that know one else knows and she does it before she even thinks about it drunk or sober. All I could say was I'm sorry. She said yeah whatever just for get I said anything and walked inside. I am trying to forget it but when a girl I like this much tells me something like that its hard to forget idk maybe I’m reading to much into this what do you all think?

[anonymous53]

Talk to her about it. It seems like she trusts you with things more than others.

[Eagle63]

Well, I can see why she would be scared of leading herself into talking to a friend of hers thats the opposite gender, but i would let her progress with it. If she doesn't come to realzie that it is supposed to be a blessing and not a curse that she can talk to you about that kind of stuff, then keep on living life. But definitely wait until her and ur best friend are broken up.

[Iam.]

I agree with sXe-Amo-X

[Iam.]

Just be there for her, maybe thats what she wants.

[smitty35]

I had a hard time following what you said. :-( I am not trying to be mean, but its hard to understand text if proper grammar isnt implemented.

Umm...from what I understand, she has voices in her head and you are the voice? Is that right?

[Andymoto377]

I had a hard time following what you said. :-( I am not trying to be mean, but its hard to understand text if proper grammar isnt implemented.

Umm...from what I understand, she has voices in her head and you are the voice? Is that right?

wow dude don't know how you got that. But no she is just a really private girl. Like she doesn't just have walls up she has a fortress. I think it scares her on how easy it is to tell me things about her or her life. I have been just pretending I don't like her like that because my bestfriend is in love with her and is in a friends with benifits thing with her but when she tells me shit like that I think she is like using code to tell me she whats me or something. I get over it then go back to being her friend. Probally not heathy for me but my friends are happy I guess.

[jason_smitty]

Run dude, your best friends in love with her,,,, keep the friend and find another girl, too much potential drama there

[Andymoto377]

Run dude, your best friends in love with her,,,, keep the friend and find another girl, too much potential drama there

Haha yeah dude I'm not trying to do anything cause of the drama but it sucks cause we are all good friends and hangout all the time. Sometimes shit happens where I have a momentary lapse in judgement then I have a battle in my head for awhile but I will always comes down to I have know Alex my whole life and no matter how much I care about this girl its not worth it.