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ilovebacon94
April 11th, 2011, 11:58 PM
I have this girl that asked me out last month, I accepted because I felt sorry for her, we "went out" for 2 weeks, with her being exceptionally clingy and annoying, then she starts telling people how she's in love with me and is the only reason she is still there. I broke up with her, she ended up fine, but she still follows me around and flirts with me, and often posts on fb about how she dreams of me and hates me at the same time but wants me back so she can feel whole again, we broke up 6 weeks ago and she wont leave me alone. How can I convince her that I am not the one, and to move on?:mad:

Amnesiac
April 12th, 2011, 12:07 AM
Tell it straight to her face.

restricted NA
April 12th, 2011, 01:27 AM
Tell her that it's perhaps getting a little creepy and any further constant disturbance from her will lead to you guys not even being friends, or get another girlfriend ( that you truly like) to make her have no interest. good luck :D

Sage
April 12th, 2011, 01:32 AM
Be a fucking asshole. Or tell her you're queer. Or both. Either way, you need to crush her hopes and dreams. Any leniency, mercy, or lightheartedness and you'll never get her out of your hair. It's a potential life lesson you shouldn't deprive her of.

anonymous53
April 12th, 2011, 11:29 AM
Be a fucking asshole. Or tell her you're queer. Or both. Either way, you need to crush her hopes and dreams. Any leniency, mercy, or lightheartedness and you'll never get her out of your hair. It's a potential life lesson you shouldn't deprive her of.

I actually agree with Sage on this one. Be an asshole, it'll be better off for both of you. She'll realize it's completely over, and you'll finally get her out of your hair.

smitty35
April 13th, 2011, 09:28 PM
Tell her that you want to talk to her. Sit down with her and tell her that you are just not into her. Tell her nicely of course. You dont want to break her wierd little heart. I think that will do it.

Amnesiac
April 14th, 2011, 12:27 AM
Tell her that you want to talk to her. Sit down with her and tell her that you are just not into her. Tell her nicely of course. You dont want to break her wierd little heart. I think that will do it.

If this doesn't work, you need to be harsh the second time.

People who are annoying pests deserve to be told off if they don't get the message the first time.

Craig1995
April 14th, 2011, 06:09 AM
Just tell her rather bluntly that Ur not interested :(

Timv29
April 14th, 2011, 07:23 PM
tell her that you are getting uncomfortable and want some space

jason_smitty
April 15th, 2011, 09:05 PM
tell her flat out like everyone says, in the end she will be glad you did