My brother.

[justmehere]

I didn't know whether to post this here or in Family and Friends so please do move if needed.

Well my older brother doesn't live with us anymore so we don't see him often. but the last time we saw him was in February. when we saw him then he looked healthy and had a bit of a tan. i was just looking at his recent(in the last week or so)pictures on facebook,he looks horrible. he's extremly pale(like the kind of pale you turn when you're really sick)and he's lost a ton of weight. i mean his face is sunken in. and you can see some of his bones. he just looks...really unhealthy.
i'm really worried about him.
hm i don't really know why i posted this or what i want out of it,whether it's advice or how to approach him on it.

[MacMilker]

I didn't know whether to post this here or in Family and Friends so please do move if needed.

Well my older brother doesn't live with us anymore so we don't see him often. but the last time we saw him was in February. when we saw him then he looked healthy and had a bit of a tan. i was just looking at his recent(in the last week or so)pictures on facebook,he looks horrible. he's extremly pale(like the kind of pale you turn when you're really sick)and he's lost a ton of weight. i mean his face is sunken in. and you can see some of his bones. he just looks...really unhealthy.
i'm really worried about him.
hm i don't really know why i posted this or what i want out of it,whether it's advice or how to approach him on it.

well college, (if thats what hes in) can wreck you mentally, even just living on your own can
theres too many factors to be concerned in the situation
I would advise talking to your parents or asking him directly

[justmehere]

well college, (if thats what hes in) can wreck you mentally, even just living on your own can
theres too many factors to be concerned in the situation
I would advise talking to your parents or asking him directly

he goes to college online,and he lives with his boyfriend(i suppose living with his jerk of a boyfriend could weaken him)i'll call him tomorrow(if he actually answers)
thanks :D

[Fiction]

As Christian said, there are so many things it could be. An eating disorder is not impossible but I think there are much more things it's more likley to be. Maybe he is going through some kind of stress or something that is reducing is appetite?

[justmehere]

As Christian said, there are so many things it could be. An eating disorder is not impossible but I think there are much more things it's more likley to be. Maybe he is going through some kind of stress or something that is reducing is appetite?

idk. maybe! he's in colorgaurd so he travels a lot but he's been in colorgaurd since he was like 15. i'm he's fine and i'm just being over worried about him.
thanks you guys :)