Fallen in love with best friend, she has a boyfriend. Great.

[Hatsune Miku]

I dunno what to do. So, I met this girl like 2 months ago. Shes 16 (turning 17) First day we hung out we instantly clicked and we became best friends right there. We have everything in common, everything. And like, I dunno. Shes just awesome. We had alot of fun, and for once I was truly happy. We talked about our relationships. Her current and my past, and shes very honest and trustworthy. I could see myself being very happy with her. And of course, I fell in love her with after 2 months. Maybe it's love, maybe it's just a crush? I dunno. But it's all about taking chances right? I told her how I feel and there's no awkwardness between us, she said if she didn't have a boyfriend she would have definitely dated me. Now here is where I'm confused. Should I wait in hopes that they will someday break up? They've been going out for 11 months but he sometimes does things that really upset her, so I dunno. I mean if they did break up I wouldn't go to her the first second and ask her out. I'd give her time, as long as she needs to recover, and I'd be there to comfort her whenever she needs it. Then when the time is right I would ask her.

[high-school108]

wait it out and see what happens you might be in a long relationship with her just dont push her i have done that before and i end up not dating her

[Iam.]

Noob question... you mean like push her like talking or texting or chatting with her too much or like asking her out too much?

[User Deleted]

Hmm i had a really good friend who i began to like... she liked anther person allready and it was really ackward moment... im normally asexual preference, lost that temporarily, and learned my lesson for abandoning my belifes to hormonal influence

Edit: sorry it a little off topic i just thought i would share

[music is my soul]

i think you should wait it out and from there you have perfect plan.

[Iron Man]

I am in the exact same situation as you, and man it is a bitch. I am waiting until they break up, so I can get my chance, but that is just me.

[Hatsune Miku]

I am in the exact same situation as you, and man it is a bitch. I am waiting until they break up, so I can get my chance, but that is just me.

Yeah, its a bitch. Even though me and her aren't together I treat her really well ( I treat her better than her own boyfriend as a matter of fact )

[Iron Man]

Yeah, its a bitch. Even though me and her aren't together I treat her really well ( I treat her better than her own boyfriend as a matter of fact )

I guess patience is the key. I am so sure about her that I will wait.

[smitty35]

Well is she like bi? I think she is if she was serious about going out with you. I agree with your idea of giving her some time if they do break up. Good luck :-)

[Iron Man]

Well is she like bi? I think she is if she was serious about going out with you. I agree with your idea of giving her some time if they do break up. Good luck :-)

How does bisexuality even make sense in this situation?

[Hatsune Miku]

How does bisexuality even make sense in this situation?

I was also wondering that.

Well, I have news. I've seemed to move on. I realized that they aren't going to be breaking up anytime soon, and I've met someone else. She was single, I was single. Things took off and here I am calling this girl my girlfriend. I really like her and she seems good for me.

[Iron Man]

I was also wondering that.

Well, I have news. I've seemed to move on. I realized that they aren't going to be breaking up anytime soon, and I've met someone else. She was single, I was single. Things took off and here I am calling this girl my girlfriend. I really like her and she seems good for me.

Thats great news. I guess eventually you have to move on.