Am I a slut?

[Spook]

It's all swirling through my head what happened yesterday. I liked William for years, and now it seems like he wants me. Well, here's how it started.

He and his friend wanted me to give them blowjobs, but then his friend left. I didn't really want to do it, so I just kind of shyed it away. We went back to his house, and we went in his room and locked the door. He asked if I wanted to make out. I was really nervous, but said yes. It was...wet, but sort of amazing in a way. I laid down on his bed, and we made out with him on top, me on top, and my legs wrapped around him. He asked me to take my shirt off (I was wearing a bra), and I was really nervous again, but I did. We kept kissing, then I put my shirt back on and we went downstairs to hang out with the others. He asked me if we were going out, and I asked him if he wanted to...and he said "It all depends." He told me that I was better than his last girlfriend...which he broke up with last night. He pointed out hot girls when we were out. But when we were kissing...I felt beautiful.

When I got home...I told my parents about it. I have a good relationship with them, so I feel comfortable talking to them (I left out the part about the bj. If I didn't do it, I don't think I should say it). My mom said that I wanted him too badly, and I was throwing myself at him. She said that first kiss wasn't really appropriate, and I shouldn't have gone into his room alone. He's a nice guy and I like him alot, though. She also said that...I can't go to my school dance with this other guy that I had planned before I got with William. I was really excited about this though because it would be my first school dance. :(

I don't know what to do. Do you think I should stay with William? Is what we did bad? Am I a slut? :confused:

[anonymous53]

No, you're not a slut, but it really sounds like he's taking advantage of you because he can tell you really want to be with him. Be cautious.


Guy perspective: He's using you.

[foreverbroken37]

no your not a slut hun... you liked him for a long time and he was letting you in so of course you were gonna say yes.. i would... dont feeel bad about live with no regrets :)

[music is my soul]

i wouldnt call you a slut. but i do agree with amo that hes using you. the way you were explaining things led me to believe that someone else was making him do it or he just needed someone to get his other girlfriend off of his mind. but thats just my thought. it could be wrong.

[ShaneK]

Ur in no way a slut. He is some1 u have liked for a long while, so when the opportunity arose ta b alone wit him u took it. Nothing wrong wit that - just enjoy urself.

But dont let him b ur guide make ur own decisions bout how far u wana go an wat u wana do.

[Craig1995]

Ur not a slut. And if something made me feel beautiful I'd go for it! Soo I think u should :)

[bdon]

1.idk
2.not from my veiw
3.no

[Roses_Are_Yellow]

I don't htink you are, you seem to like him a lot. Be careful though, he sounds a little suspicious to me though. Oh, and if you don't feel comfortable with taking your shirt off or doing any of that with him, then don't. If he really likes you, he'll understand.

[Spook]

Thanks guys. I figured out I don't really want to be with him...he's a player. I'm going to the school dance with a nice guy. :)

[anonymous53]

Thanks guys. I figured out I don't really want to be with him...he's a player. I'm going to the school dance with a nice guy. :)

*Clap* YAY for nice guys :) They finally get a chance. He'll treat you well if he is really a nice guy :)

[Spook]

He is. :) He's the kind that opens doors for girls. :D

[anonymous53]

Chivalry is not dead. :) Some guys were still raised properly.

[foreverbroken37]

awwww im happy for you :) do you like this guy more then the other guy?

[Spook]

awwww im happy for you :) do you like this guy more then the other guy?

I'm not really sure.

Well yesterday afternoon my friend called and now she's totally screwed me up. She says he said he felt bad about asking me to take my shirt off, and that she thinks he really is a better guy. He wants me to come over more, but my mom says he can only come HERE. I'm so confused and IDK what to dooo. :(

[anonymous53]

He's bullshitting you Animal. He got caught "Playing" the field and doesn't feel like handling the consequences.

[foreverbroken37]

go on this date with the other guy and see if who you like more... he is probably jealous that your with someone else and now he cant mess around with you

[Spook]

He's bullshitting you Animal. He got caught "Playing" the field and doesn't feel like handling the consequences.

I don't know though...he and my best friend are also best friends so they tell each other everything...and

Agh I guess I can't post in this again till' I talk to him in person. Thanks for the comment.

[anonymous53]

I'm just saying. Watch yourself. He seems like a player. Stay with the nice guy :)

[MattVon]

A BJ at the age of 13, unusual. Nonetheless, kissing said person wouldn't make you a slut, far from it actually. Just make sure you stay in control of what you want to do and don't let anyone force you to do things.

[notsure101]

No, your not a slut, if you were, you'd be doing the same thing with 15 different guys, trust me your good :)

[smitty35]

Well, let me start of by telling you that you are NOT a slut. Your hormones drove you to what you did. Dont we teens just love our hormones? And he was your crush and you finally got him. I would be kinda happy, especially if it works out well.

[Modus Operandi]

The fact that you're questioning whether you're a slut means you're not one.

The guy in your first post was a player and a bit of a douche; ignore him. I skimmed the thread and saw something about a "nice guy." Watch for guys that are too nice; they get clingy. Some of my friends are like that: they go out with someone, and the girl breaks up with them because their niceness starts to seem creepy and strange.

[jason_smitty]

go with the nice guy, and dont ever let your self get played, make the guy like you!

[Spook]

A BJ at the age of 13, unusual. Nonetheless, kissing said person wouldn't make you a slut, far from it actually. Just make sure you stay in control of what you want to do and don't let anyone force you to do things.

Yeah I think he's a little "advanced" for his age. xD

I didn't do it, btw.

[MattVon]

Yeah I think he's a little "advanced" for his age. xDTo eager by the sounds of it as well. Haha

I didn't do it, btw.Oh, I must have misread your original post about that. Well that's good to hear then, like I originally said, you're no where near a slut. Also, it's probably best to savour the moment for someone important and when you're ready, and a litter older. :p