REALLY awkward. Need advice

[Lifeguard18]

Ok so my friend who is gay called me about five minutes and I sent him a txt saying, I can't talk my parents are sleeping. What's up. He txted back saying he loves me. I responded by saying, huh? He sent the same message again.

Idk what to say. I have no feelings that for him whatsoever. I still have a confused face on. We are too close of friends to even go out and he is not my type of guy.

I didn't respond back yet and idk if I'm going to get an answer from here right away. But if you can respond ASAP!!

Idk what to say it was just so sudden, weird, and this late at night, 20 mins to 12.

And idk if he really means it or its just a joke.

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[suza23]

Tell him how you really feel.

Don't try and blow it off and not respond.

If you really want to still remain friends you should just explain to him you aren't interested in him

[justmehere]

i suggest just asking him like maybe what he means,or if he's serious(but not in a way that might discourage him)and depending on what his answer is just let him know you don't feel the same for him.

[Lifeguard18]

Tell him how you really feel.

Don't try and blow it off and not respond.

If you really want to still remain friends you should just explain to him you aren't interested in him

All he said was I love you. I don't know anything else besides that. I want to and don't want to respond. Idk if he is interested in me or not.

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[Lifeguard18]

i suggest just asking him like maybe what he means,or if he's serious(but not in a way that might discourage him)and depending on what his answer is just let him know you don't feel the same for him.

Thanks. I want to ask what he means, but knowing how he'll respond is what's getting to me. He told me that, this was a while ago, if he was single, he would date me. He is single now and ever since he was single, this has been worrying me cause I would not want to go out with him cause we are close friends.

And the fact that he would say this to me so late at night makes it even more weird.

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[justmehere]

Thanks. I want to ask what he means, but knowing how he'll respond is what's getting to me. He told me that, this was a while ago, if he was single, he would date me. He is single now and ever since he was single, this has been worrying me cause I would not want to go out with him cause we are close friends.

And the fact that he would say this to me so late at night makes it even more weird.

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just go ahead and ask(i know its easier said than done)but it'll put your mind at ease. you can just let him know you're cool with just being friends,and you don't like him in the same way,just as a friend. and he may not even mean it that way. i've told my friends i love them at odd times just because i was bored plently :)

[mRojas2000]

Idk if he is interested in me or not.

So what you're saying here is that you don't know what "I love you" means?
Not to brag or anything, but I've had to say no to any people that were close to me and were interested... my best advice is to tell him the truth, tell him that you have no such feelings towards him and that you hope that this will not ruin the friendship if that's what you really care about.
As I said I've had to reject a lot of girl friends, I sometimes feel I regret the moment, but when I think back and think if I would have been happy the answer is always there... I wouldn't have been, I had a girlfriend at the time and was the happiest man alive.
Make yourself that question and answer yourself.

[Infidelitas]

If you dont have feelings for him, you need to tell him right away! You cant lead anyone on.

[smitty35]

You should meet up with him. First of, ask him sincerely if he was serious. Then if you want to be with him then tell him how you feel. If you dont want to be an item with him then tell him, but do it nicely. A broken heart hurts

[whodatbe]

if you're really good friends, you can say i love you too bro, but like a brother or something like that, but i think you should figure out what he meant wen he said he loves you

[Lifeguard18]

Thanks for the advice everyone and sorry I responded late. I've been busy with school and stuff.

But, I havnt answered back yet and idk if I will. I saw him in school today with a few people and he quickly turned his head. I'm not too sure if he was saying something to his friends or not trying to make eye contact with me.

And I know I should adress it too him but its already awkward.

There's a group with other gay, bi people and we are in it. Its with 8 people including me and I may ask him about it next week in the next time we all meet up.

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