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hey i am new to here. i am tired of getting made fun of, laughed at, and getting pushed around at school and at home. im a nice guy, people just dont talk to me. i am in 8th grade and last year i never talked to anyone ever. so u can say i dont have a lot of friends. I always feel low, and not worthy of anything. im kinda of a nerd but not so much. i get good grades like my lowest grade right now is a c+... i think thats cause i just dont care anymore. people make fun of me for everything. its just making me explode.....idk what to do. or anything, i cant get a girlfriend eaither...and another thing. april 10 is the day my mom passed away...so im really crappy cause this is the last week i got to see her. she passed away in 09 of cancer. makes me wanna cry not seeing her.

[SimSailorNick]

Sorry about you mom. It's not easy losing a parent and I hope you stay strong.

For the bullying, do you know why they're making fun of you or why they aren't talking to you? Because if you don't, you should try to figure it out so that you can solve the problem. And you said you think that's 'cause you just don't care anymore. If you don't care about them bullying you, then why are you tired of getting made fun of, laughed at and pushed around? Try to look for what's causing it so you can stopped being bullied and feel better. :)

[Andymoto377]

hey i am new to here. i am tired of getting made fun of, laughed at, and getting pushed around at school and at home. im a nice guy, people just dont talk to me. i am in 8th grade and last year i never talked to anyone ever. so u can say i dont have a lot of friends. I always feel low, and not worthy of anything. im kinda of a nerd but not so much. i get good grades like my lowest grade right now is a c+... i think thats cause i just dont care anymore. people make fun of me for everything. its just making me explode.....idk what to do. or anything, i cant get a girlfriend eaither...and another thing. april 10 is the day my mom passed away...so im really crappy cause this is the last week i got to see her. she passed away in 09 of cancer. makes me wanna cry not seeing her.

yeah dude it sucks all though elementry I was made fun of a lot form kids at school althout I was a nice kid you know but there is almost so much you can take so i started to fight back then when my cousin moved in with me it got worse cause then i had back up then in Jr high I didn't talk much my grades droped to Cs i detached myself from the world it actually got better in high school when the kids started to grow up and I met a group good group of friends your in 8th grade even if you don't have a lot of friends if you have one or 2 close ones is better I think. About your mom Im sorry to hear that my mom passed away when I was younger and its not easy to deal with that kinda shit u ever need to talk or whatever hit me up.

[Spook]

First of all, welcome to VT! You can get all the help you need here.

I'm really sorry about your mom, just remember the happy times and that she's in a better place now. But what would your mom think if she knew that you were lagging behind on your grades and that your life was slowing down because of her depart from the world?

I'm sure she would want you to remember her in your heart and move on with your life. :)

As for the bullying, I think you should go to a counselor to help you, or maybe even a therapist. You're going through a hard time and can't do this alone.

If you ever need to talk PM me, I'm here to help. :D

[MattVon]

*I am extremely sorry to hear about your mum, I am currently under a similar situation with my mum who has been fighting cancer for a good 11 years almost, I'm extremely afraid to lose. But enough about mine, although I don't believe in that heaven and hell crap, I'm sure your mum is watching over you and she'd be proud of your education grades. Don't let the haters get you down, you're in school still and it's best to keep your head down and working, so when you're older you can earn big time.

If people can't respect you for who you are, then they don't deserve your time as friend, it's that simple. Life is obviously not an easy thing to ride through, but to be capable of riding through it without following the crowd that does nothing in their life is an achievement. I'm sure you'll find someone, or someone will find you to be friends with, it's just a matter of time. As for a girlfriend, not exactly the most important thing although it can have some affects on us males.

Ever seen the bully be pwned by the victim? I suggest you youtube it "bully owned by fat kid"

Also, I don't know what type of music you like. Clearly there is a wide selection of music people will listen to but I listen to one band in particular (although none of my friends like them (electronic music)), their lyrics may be inspiring to you, I'd give them a listen, I'll even supply you with the ones I think that may help you out (if you dislike them no worries, I'm used to people not liking them, but I love them haha).


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tCLBntJznsM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7uLRlPnyx4M
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ia-0k73CNZE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvY_r6pULO0

[BOSS]

hey i am new to here. i am tired of getting made fun of, laughed at, and getting pushed around at school and at home. im a nice guy, people just dont talk to me. i am in 8th grade and last year i never talked to anyone ever. so u can say i dont have a lot of friends. I always feel low, and not worthy of anything. im kinda of a nerd but not so much. i get good grades like my lowest grade right now is a c+... i think thats cause i just dont care anymore. people make fun of me for everything. its just making me explode.....idk what to do. or anything, i cant get a girlfriend eaither...and another thing. april 10 is the day my mom passed away...so im really crappy cause this is the last week i got to see her. she passed away in 09 of cancer. makes me wanna cry not seeing her.

Just trust me in the future those but heads will be on the streets buming you for money and you can say " screw you remember the 8th grade I hope you die" lol Mean I know but trust me they'll get wuts coming to them what goes around comes around. :yeah::yeah::yeah:

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Just trust me in the future those but heads will be on the streets buming you for money and you can say " screw you remember the 8th grade I hope you die" lol Mean I know but trust me they'll get wuts coming to them what goes around comes around. :yeah::yeah::yeah:

thanks

[MazMazMaz]

Have you tried talking to a school counsellor? For me, talking to one helped me deal with my shyness, self-esteem problems and lack of social skills, which were major factors in my bullying and social alienation problems. It could be beneficial for you?

In my experience, bullies are insecure people by nature. That's why they instantly move to bully those who appear weaker or shyer; so they can just feel like they're bigger than someone. (I know it can seem strange, but seriously, even the hard, powerful kids can be really insecure). If you were able to hold your head high and walk powerfully and not react to their insults and the like, it could help.

Don't worry about having a girlfriend. It's not the most important thing right now, but I promise, it will happen for you one day. I know it can seem like loads of other kids are getting pretty far with girls and boasting about being the first to have sex and the like, but there's actually rarely any truth to them. (Again, it's sometimes the insecurity making say stuff like this).

It's great that you get good grades and do well in schoolwork. Don't let them take that away from you.

[Random3r]

hey everyone witness some sort of bullying in there life i mean when i was younger i got bullied a bit and my way of fighting it was playing dirty,, i had revenge on the mind and no remourse what so ever. i feel sorry for you with not having a mum around to help but you have to remember you are not the only one i know various people with no mums or dads :) the main thing is DONT give up on the school work will you mate! youll become much better off in life than the bullys it happens. :P

[randy.boii]

Kids are mean and life can hurt and suck at points but to get through it it helps to have friends that will be there for you. You can tell your family how you feel but things happen for a reason and your a strong human being and you'll get through this and grow up to be an amazing person you can message me if you ever wanna talk I'm here for you

[gatorbait231]

Im really sorry about your mom.
as for the bullying i still get bullied alot and the only way to get around it is act as if they dont matter hold your head up high literally, and just go on with life. It doesnt mean they are trash its just anyone whos out of the circle is made fun of what you got to do is act like your in the circle dont hang out with them just stand proud.

[Love.Hate]

I'm extremely sorry to hear about your mother, :hug:

As for the bullying, I'm afraid in this life some kids are harsh. They don't understand that what they do hurts, and affects people emotionally. I know that there is hope, one day you will meet a lovely bunch of friends. People who love you for who you are, nerdy or not. I think nerds are the kindest and most friendly people anyway. So don't feel bad for being you. You might be asking yourself why me? Why are they picking on you? I will tell you why. They are jelous and take pride out of hurting others. Your clever, kind and they want to be more like you. I know it's hard but you just have to ignore people that treat you like crap. They will not be in your life forever. One day they will get their commupence. Please stay strong, rise above it. Take care, I'm always here if you want to chat :)

[javs26]

yeah dude, i used to be in the same predicament, cept i fought back and didnt get good grades. i honestly dont know what i could tell you that could benefit you since high school kids are a lot different than 8th graders , but what worked for me is that i met some really good friends and from there i met more friends. people try to make fun of me for stuff, but it seems that it backfires on them because im such a smart ass. but heres a great piece of advice... just be nice. im not saying give them all the money you have, but just be like, super polite with EVERYBODY, cus eventually somebody is going to say "dude, quit being such an ass, that kid is nice to everybody" so atleast you will be left alone if that works. again, its hard to give advice since i dont know what kind of people go to your school and all that junk