Older brother

So im new to this, but really want to know if anyoe else is in the same situation. My older brother (2 years older) is curious like me about sex. we talk all the time about it. He sees me naked a lot, and asked if he could see my vagina up close the other day. I let him and he let me see his penis. I let him feel inside my vagina since hes never ddone that to a girl before. I told my best friend about it and she said her brother did the same thing, but that its wrong and we shouldnt tell anybody. I dont want my parents to know because I know its wrong. Does anyone else expiriment with there brother??

Originally Posted by maddy14

So im new to this, but really want to know if anyoe else is in the same situation. My older brother (2 years older) is curious like me about sex. we talk all the time about it. He sees me naked a lot, and asked if he could see my vagina up close the other day. I let him and he let me see his penis. I let him feel inside my vagina since hes never ddone that to a girl before. I told my best friend about it and she said her brother did the same thing, but that its wrong and we shouldnt tell anybody. I dont want my parents to know because I know its wrong. Does anyone else expiriment with there brother??

I don't think it's wrong, I mean i've seen my bro naked a lot

Originally Posted by maddy14

So im new to this, but really want to know if anyoe else is in the same situation. My older brother (2 years older) is curious like me about sex. we talk all the time about it. He sees me naked a lot, and asked if he could see my vagina up close the other day. I let him and he let me see his penis. I let him feel inside my vagina since hes never ddone that to a girl before. I told my best friend about it and she said her brother did the same thing, but that its wrong and we shouldnt tell anybody. I dont want my parents to know because I know its wrong. Does anyone else expiriment with there brother??

I don't think looking is wrong, but I think the touching is wrong. Basically, it sounds like your brother fingered you, but you know it's wrong.

As long as it doesnt turn into sexual feelings or actions its okay to see what bodys look like

I have had near the same experience with my stepbro and everything is pretty normal to my standards. Though I would die before I told my parents that. Actually virtual teen is the only place I've talked about it

I think that as long as you're both ok with it and comfortable, then there is nothing wrong with it at all!

Originally Posted by kelly820

I think that as long as you're both ok with it and comfortable, then there is nothing wrong with it at all!

UNLESS You take it further. Touching eachother is a no-no. You shouldn't ever touch eachother in that way, just because of the fact that it is considered incest. I'm sorrry but I know you're curious but that's what the future is for. When you're way older, and you have a serious boyfriend, you can find out about it that way. But your brother is not who you should experiment with.

I don't think there is anything wrong with this. I have an older brother too.

I think maybe looking is acceptable..
But i dont think touching is.. its just in my opinion a bit wierd. I wouldnt tell your parents!

I've done stuff with my older step brother.. I thinks it's fine.

Well I dont have feelings for him and he doesnt have feelings for me. It just feels really good to have him touch me. I dont touch him, I just watch. I dont want to have some random boy just touch me, so why not my brother. And we both promised not to tell anyone besides on here. Im glad im not the only one who does this with there brother!

I've done stuff w my sis, it's ok Just be careful since it might lead to sex and that would be a problem if you got pregnant lol

Originally Posted by LoveLikeWinter

UNLESS You take it further. Touching eachother is a no-no. You shouldn't ever touch eachother in that way, just because of the fact that it is considered incest. I'm sorrry but I know you're curious but that's what the future is for. When you're way older, and you have a serious boyfriend, you can find out about it that way. But your brother is not who you should experiment with.

i'm gonna agree with this. experimenting and stuff is fine,just not with your brother.

no i dont think its wrong at all! I think it's a safe and healthy way for a guy and a girl to find out about the opposite sex

Originally Posted by Love.Hate

I think maybe looking is acceptable..
But i dont think touching is.. its just in my opinion a bit wierd. I wouldnt tell your parents!

Hmm agreed on this one.

So basically your brother fingered you, thats like you tossing him off or giving him head you do realise that ... dont you? Yeah. I would say its VERY wrong.

it's pretty much just like your brother fingered you.
my brother is 10 years older than me
&
i've seen him naked some,& in his boxers.
but he's family.
i don't ask about anything,
i don't ask to touch, becuase that's gross.
i also have a sister who is 3 years older than me.
and i've seen her naked a lot [we were little kids together, duh]
but i don't touch
i don't talk
because that's gross.

im gonna agree with the "its wrong" ppl.
i mean everyones curious to see what others have BUT he fingered you and thats def wrong. if youre not careful and like stop doing this kinda stuff with him, its gonna lead to doing other things.
there are lots of other ppl you can experiment with or explore their bodies. dont do it with family

Honestly, it's a little odd. I can't imagine doing that stuff with my brother. I see him in his boxers alot, but nothing further. If you're seriously not careful it can lead to other things. You said he's older, I'm not saying he could rape you, but it's always a possibility. Rape and molestation usually occur with people closest to the child/young adult.
Being one of those people who've been through that, it affects you your whole life.
Please be careful and don't do anything else.
I'm sorry, but I'm not going to let anybody else be someone's playtoy, it's not worth it.

I think it's cool that you're helping each other out. As long as you know you can trust each other, then it's alright for educational purposes.
Just make sure it doesn't go further. I'm sure you wouldn't want to get pregnant, especially by your brother!!

Yeah im pretty sure its normal for now, just dont let it get out of hand.