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Old April 25th, 2018, 05:18 AM   #1
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Unhappy Death of my relative

A few years ago I visited Fiji and I met a really old relative, my dead great grandmas sister. My great grandma and I were pretty close. She died in 2009. Well this sister was of hers was the last of her siblings left and I made a real connection with her. Now Im in Fiji again and I wanted to see her, but my parents said well see. Today we were driving and there was a funeral. Later today I realised that was her funeral and she passed away 2 days ago. When I told my dad I had wanted to see her, he went and told everyone. I know this is trivial, but no one understands how I feel. They all think I barely knew her and dont care, but I do. I cant talk to anyone because they belittle my feelings...
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Old April 25th, 2018, 05:53 AM   #2
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All your feelings are completely normal in the grieving process. Give yourself permission to deal with your emotions. Let yourself cry. Let yourself be angry. Let all your emotions run their course. Don't bottle them up.
You dont have to hide it. I'm sure you're not the only one who's saddened her death. They will understand as they are all feeling the same way...you can lean on them for support.


"Melancholy were the sounds on a winter's night".
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Old April 25th, 2018, 12:52 PM   #3
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Thanks, I will see if I can talk to the counsellor at school.
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Old April 25th, 2018, 01:29 PM   #4
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In 2009 my mum got murded by 2 people they both got arrested and charged with murder. But for last 4 years I been very low n upset but today got told by gb I have bad depression it get me down so much
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Old April 26th, 2018, 05:03 AM   #5
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In 2009 my mum got murded by 2 people they both got arrested and charged with murder. But for last 4 years I been very low n upset but today got told by gb I have bad depression it get me down so much
Oh my gosh! Thas's terrible!
I'm so sorry... I don't even know what to say...
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Old April 27th, 2018, 08:17 PM   #6
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In 2009 my mum got murded by 2 people they both got arrested and charged with murder. But for last 4 years I been very low n upset but today got told by gb I have bad depression it get me down so much
we are all here for you if you need to talk

life is like toilet paper, your either on a roll or your taking shit from some asshole
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Old April 29th, 2018, 05:53 AM   #7
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Can you try talking to other family about it? Who is the oldest person in your family who would have been close to them? Maybe if you talk to them you can learn more about her life, share memories etc...They would probably love talking to you about it as well. Just a thought!
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Old April 29th, 2018, 06:04 AM   #8
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In 2009 my mum got murded by 2 people they both got arrested and charged with murder. But for last 4 years I been very low n upset but today got told by gb I have bad depression it get me down so much
I'm so sorry for this
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Old April 29th, 2018, 05:07 PM   #9
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I'm the oldest child n only one she had.
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