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Old October 26th, 2010, 06:02 PM   #1
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i've come to the conclusion that my grandad is some form of perv for a long time, have avoided him, for a long time, and have put up with a lot of shit, for a long time. i'm just greatful he's not blood related.
today while out, he spoke to me, and due to the fact i'm coming to the end of my line with it, i snapped at him.
so, my mum goes while i was talking to her at home,
"will you stop talking to your grandad like that?!"
"tell him to stop fucking looking at me then"
"NATALIE. he wasnt even looking at you when you spoke to him"
"just shut up."
"that's just grandad"
"no, its fucking perverted."
"NATALIE."
"no. i'm up to here with it."
she suddenly changed the subject.
she couldnt deny it, or defend him in any way.
i dont know. i always thought it was somewhat in my head, but that's just made it even more clearer its not.
to stare at me, was one thing.
to stare at my in places he shouldnt be, was another.
to start touching my legs, that crossed the line.
to notice my friend getting thinner, despite only seeing her in a baggy uniform, was too far.

i just dont fucking know.

EDIT: (bit more explination of the past that I wrote when i was slightly less in shock)

its just staring now mostly, but he used to touch my legs and shit, just generally wasn't pleasant or remotely nice, or normal.
kinda freaking when your "grandad" is staring at your arse and tits whenever he sees you, thinking you cant see him.
highly disturbed by the fact when i was little and slept over there, when i'd had a bath my grandma would dry me like downstairs right infront of him.
idk, the touching thing stopped mostly a few years ago, still went for my legs a few times mind
then he noticed and said to my mum and gran that my friend was losing weight.
how the fuck could he tell when he only saw her in a baggy uniform?
i mean she was, but it wasn't that easy to fucking tell
idk, just.. don't like it.


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Old October 26th, 2010, 06:14 PM   #2
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As long as he's not doing anything to you I wouldn't worry about it. You should probabaly try and avoid situations where your alone with him just to be on the safe side but if he's not doing anything then i wouldn't worry too much.

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Old October 26th, 2010, 06:16 PM   #3
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As long as he's not doing anything to you I wouldn't worry about it. You should probabaly try and avoid situations where your alone with him just to be on the safe side but if he's not doing anything then i wouldn't worry too much.
i was always bugged by it, because i hate being stared at
and when someone who's supposed to be your grandad is staring at your tits, its kinda freaky.
but yeah, i know i shouldnt worry, its hard not to
and then when he pointed out my friend was losing weight, and i'd barely noticed, it became like.. wtf.
thanks Kathyy.

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Old October 26th, 2010, 06:52 PM   #4
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THERE IS SOMETHING VERY WRONG WITH YOUR GRANDFATHER.

End of.
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No one should be staring at their grandchildren like that. EVER.

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Old October 26th, 2010, 06:54 PM   #5
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THERE IS SOMETHING VERY WRONG WITH YOUR GRANDFATHER.

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No one should be staring at their grandchildren like that. EVER.
or their best friends :/

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Old October 26th, 2010, 06:55 PM   #6
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Best thing to do is just walk away. A good general knows when he can fight, and when he cannot.

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Old October 27th, 2010, 10:22 AM   #7
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If he keeps looking at your friends they'll notice, and if your not comfortable with him looking at you like that then maybe report him to someone?. Sorry my advice isn't too great.
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Old October 27th, 2010, 11:43 AM   #8
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it depends how old your grandpa is cos he might just be going a bit senile and doesn't realise he's going it

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Old October 27th, 2010, 12:24 PM   #9
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he's been doing it since i was quite young, but i thought it was normal at first as kids do,
he's only about 64 or something,
and nowhere near losing it.

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Old October 27th, 2010, 02:53 PM   #10
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whoop is ass if he gets to close to u
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Old October 27th, 2010, 02:59 PM   #11
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whoop is ass if he gets to close to u
That is a terrible suggestion, She'll be the one who's blamed for his indecent behavour.

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Old November 17th, 2010, 05:01 PM   #12
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I'm sorry to hear such a thing.Well sometimes these fucked up things just happen and are unavoidable.It sucks to have someone close to your family behaving like a son of a bitch.Just avoid him until ur 18 and if it irritates you report him,in this case you really don't have what to lose.
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