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Old August 15th, 2010, 09:41 PM   #1
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Hey guys. My girlfriend who is 16 sleeps naked whenever she is at her house. Her parents are going away this weekend, and they said it was Ok if I sleep over with her, as long as we don't do anything sexual. She sleeps naked alone, and she said she wasn't going to put any clothes on even if she sleeps with me. I said thats fine. I have seen her naked before, but we are both virgins and haven't had sex yet. Anyways, I saw her naked when we went to her beach house last month, so I;m not nervous about that. What I am kinda nervous about is she wants me to get naked to. She hasn't seen me naked yet, and I'm a bit nervous. What if I get a boner while I sleep, or what if she wants to do something? I'm fine with us being naked together, but I need some advice. So help me please!
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Old August 15th, 2010, 09:44 PM   #2
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If she's a good girl, she wouldn't do anything, so that's nothing to worry about, or I wouldn't worry. If you get a boner, you get a boner, it's natural, just don't sleep behind one another, sleep back-to-back, this way she won't feel your boner. Otherwise, good luck.

And make sure she obeys her parents, you too.
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Old August 15th, 2010, 10:37 PM   #3
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just tell her... '' wat if I get a boner.?. Becuz boy'z get random boner'z all the time... And wen we sleep we get boner's while sleepin a couple of time's each nite while still asleep''.... That wat u should say
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Old August 16th, 2010, 02:07 AM   #4
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What if I get a boner while I sleep, or what if she wants to do something? I'm fine with us being naked together, but I need some advice. So help me please!
If you get a boner just act like it's the most natural thing in the world. You're only telling the truth. Or you can say it's because of her.

If she wants to do something and you're not ready just tell her that. Just be honest with her.
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Old August 16th, 2010, 02:22 AM   #5
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Just be honest with her. no need to be nervous around her when you're naked. And if you're not ready to do anything and she wants to, tell her. If she's really your girlfriend, she should understand.
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Old August 16th, 2010, 02:39 AM   #6
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i kinda dont know what to saybut ill say this talk to your parents before you do anything sex related or you might end up getting her prego.
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Old August 16th, 2010, 02:48 AM   #7
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Tell her the truth, tell her that its not your fault that you get hard and that its all natural. also tell her that you dont want to do anything while your with her for this time. just be completely honest
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Old August 16th, 2010, 04:05 AM   #8
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just tell her... '' wat if I get a boner.?. Becuz boy'z get random boner'z all the time... And wen we sleep we get boner's while sleepin a couple of time's each nite while still asleep''.... That wat u should say
Agreed. It is best to be open with her about your feelings.

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Old August 16th, 2010, 06:56 AM   #9
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Yeah, you shouldn't be worried. She should be understanding enough to know that guys get boners easily, sometimes for no reason. Don't let it bother you, and it shouldn't bother her. Its her idea to sleep naked, so obviously that will cause her boyfriend to get hard... And if she asks you to sleep naked, she should already be prepared for guy things.
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Old August 16th, 2010, 08:29 AM   #10
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Keep the parents trust because now, that's what u need most, both of u stay with close ON and ask her to keep it on. That will let her know ur willing to wait and keep control of ur self and she will like that and espaically her patents stay 100% clean
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Old August 12th, 2011, 04:44 PM   #11
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If you get a boner it just proves that you don't have erectile disfunction. So, don't worry about that! Be a man dude!!! Don't be modest, if she wants to see your package, just show her. No fancy stuff here.

shhh, be quiet! You might hear something...
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Old August 13th, 2011, 08:12 AM   #12
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if she does something then tell her you just aren't ready.
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Old August 13th, 2011, 11:06 AM   #13
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Talk to her...tell her how u feel
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Old November 16th, 2011, 12:25 AM   #14
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Yeah man, only YOU know if you're ready to move forward with anything sex related. If you feel that you shouldn't sleep naked, don't. It shouldn't be a big deal to her unless she just wants you naked for sex. Just listen to your heart man. Don't do anything you will regret, or you think will ruin/strain your relationship.
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Old November 16th, 2011, 12:47 AM   #15
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talk to your gf about how you feel and tell her that you want to keep the parents trust.

always up for friends. if want advice or opinion just ask. also if you want to know something ask but be warned. dont ask if you dont want to know
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Old November 16th, 2011, 01:21 AM   #16
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she said that cuz obviously she wants something but if you not ready then just tell her

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Old November 16th, 2011, 04:22 PM   #17
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just tell her your not ready don't let her pressure you either
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Old November 16th, 2011, 04:55 PM   #18
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All I can say is just relax! Sleeping naked sounds like fun! Don't be afraid to say your not ready if she asks. But if you change your mind, Be safe.
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Old November 16th, 2011, 05:02 PM   #19
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Most guys would get a bonner if they sleep naked with there gf it would not be natural if you didn't
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