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Old December 29th, 2009, 07:08 PM   #1
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hey i know that webcamming is not allowed on this site , and my question does not involve anyone from this site . however if mods still feel a need to lock it then im sorry ahah.

anyway i went on cam to a guy about two weeks ago. (bobs your uncle .. etc.) now i havent spoken to the person since and i really regret it and i am worried about the consequences.

has anybody else cammed ? did they regret it after ?

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Old December 29th, 2009, 07:29 PM   #2
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why did u do it in the first place??

ther is nothing you can do about it.....u already did it

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Old December 29th, 2009, 07:44 PM   #3
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ther is nothing you can do about it.....u already did it
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Old December 29th, 2009, 08:29 PM   #4
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Old December 29th, 2009, 08:35 PM   #5
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its not puberty related but his hormones probably made him do it as he is probably going through puberty..........even then it should be moved, but ohwell.
I wouldn't say that it's his hormones that MADE him do it. He made the decision to do it. Hormones may have impaired his judgement a little, though.

But I agree. I haven't really cammed, but I've done something that I wasn't proud of, so don't feel like you're alone. However, I agree that there's nothing you can do, since you've already done it. The guilt will teach you not to do it again.
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Old December 29th, 2009, 08:41 PM   #6
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Yea... And almost 85% of teens has done a type of (rated R) pics or video over the phone or Internet. And you problobly have the newly found "post-masteurbation guilt".

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Old December 29th, 2009, 08:45 PM   #7
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Just think about your actions and decide a new way of acting in the future.
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Old December 30th, 2009, 01:14 AM   #8
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i've done it before and regretted it, but life goes on. try getting into contact with the person; you'll feel less bad about it.

message/pm me sometime, i help a lot of people out over here and wouldn't mind a few more
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Old December 30th, 2009, 03:24 AM   #9
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The Thrill has made you do this, I know this may sound hard but I would think about moving on from it, its probably the best thing, you can say you have learned from your mistakes which I am sure this has happened to a lot of teenagers.


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Old December 30th, 2009, 03:28 AM   #10
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All we can really say is this: Learn from your mistakes.

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Old December 30th, 2009, 04:00 AM   #11
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umm yeah i did this once when I fisrt started and regretted it. but now my cam is broken so even if I wanted to (which I dont) I couldn't

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Old December 30th, 2009, 03:58 PM   #12
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mods- I know we are treading a thin line here and I hope my post is acceptable, if not feel free to remove.

I've never felt regret about it. Then again, I never felt guilty about masturbation when I first started and I know that some people do. The consequences are rather light for you besides your parents finding out and becoming angry. If you did not enjoy doing it, then don't do it. If you think the benefits outweigh the risks and you enjoyed yourself, do it again if you wish.

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Old December 30th, 2009, 05:14 PM   #13
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Just a heads up for you all, this thread can stay as it's not requesting any kind of sexual detail, he's just asking for advice on something which we deem as appropriate.

- Never take anything for face value, never trust the system and never put up with an answer that you don't agree with. It's about time people realised the truth of this world.



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Old December 30th, 2009, 06:58 PM   #14
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hey buddy - don't feel bad. i think it's a huge curiosity a lot of guys have/do when we are young and want to let out our sexual urges.

i always figured it was better than getting into actual trouble and actual physical experiences and regretting those
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Old December 30th, 2009, 07:10 PM   #15
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Really, there is nothing you can do. You've done the deed, and that's that. I've never cammed with anyone before, nor will I ever, but I can imagine your emotional toll. If you want to, talk to him about how you feel about it and see how he feels also. We all have regrets, and this is obviously one of your own. Our sexual urges make us throw caution to the wind. Don't worry about it, as it's happened to a good majority of people.


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Old December 31st, 2009, 10:56 AM   #16
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I wouldn't do something that I think that I would regret even the slightest bit.. But that is me.

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Old December 31st, 2009, 11:09 AM   #17
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Whether it be cam related or not, when hormones are involved, we usually don't think about consequences until afterwards. I myself have never cammed and don't plan on it, but I can understand that you feel guilty and regret it. In life, we all do things we aren't proud of and I'm sure in the future, we'll all do more, but once a deed is done, it can't be taken back. Like others have said, I suggest you learn from the experience. Next time an opportunity like this pops up, remember how you felt. If you didn't like the experience, don't do it again.

And if you really want to talk to the person, I suggest doing so. It can make the situation better, maybe he feels similar. I do wish you good luck and I hope you're not alone. All of us, especially teenagers do things we aren't proud of and regret afterwards.

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Old January 6th, 2010, 10:34 PM   #18
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i agree with what everyone else is saying

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Old January 6th, 2010, 10:42 PM   #19
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Yes. Take it from me personally, exposing yourself on the Internet may seem to have no consquences, but a decade from now when you did out a video of you is keeping you from your dream job or pics of you are sending you to jail, you'll regret it more then than ever. So be careful of what you do and whoyoudo it with

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