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Old September 2nd, 2009, 02:51 PM   #1
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Okay first I hope it's in the right place, I'm really sorry if it's not

I want girls' opinion about oral sex, I personally think it's sort of humiliating for girls to give head, I wouldn't let my gf do it. Maybe I have this opinion because of the porn I've seen; my friends say it's not humiliating as long as the girl offers to do it and she's not asked to, but I still consider it humiliating either way...

opinions? anyone? I'd be glad to hear them all
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Old September 2nd, 2009, 03:24 PM   #2
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some people find it disgusting. im not that into it. if my gf offers i wont refuse if she wants to. but i wont bring it up. hope i helped . ---{--@ . my rose
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Old September 2nd, 2009, 03:24 PM   #3
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Im a boy but i don't get how you find this act humiltiating? Do you find oral sex on a girl humiliating for a guy?
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Old September 2nd, 2009, 10:14 PM   #4
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It would depend on the siguation. 4 this type of things it comes down to Ethics of that person giving it.

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Old September 2nd, 2009, 10:27 PM   #5
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Damn it, not everything in porn is what its like in real life. Just because in porn the penis is shoved down a girls throat and she is choking on it does not mean that is what head is like every time, in porn they are forced or acting dramatically for effect. If your girlfriend wants to give it to you they she is willing to. If she wants to she finds it non-degrading or non-humiliating.






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Old September 2nd, 2009, 10:46 PM   #6
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Damn it, not everything in porn is what its like in real life. Just because in porn the penis is shoved down a girls throat and she is choking on it does not mean that is what head is like every time, in porn they are forced or acting dramatically for effect. If your girlfriend wants to give it to you they she is willing to. If she wants to she finds it non-degrading or non-humiliating.
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Old September 2nd, 2009, 10:46 PM   #7
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Giving head is not a humiliating act in itself. As shown by the pornos you've obviously been watching, a girl can be humiliated by being forced to do it. You'd be embarrassed too if some guy shoved his penis down your throat and was amused when you gagged on it.

If a girl ever wants to give you oral, don't say no because you think she'll be humiliated--she wants to do it. If you're not ready, that's fine, but she can decide what she wants or doesn't want to do.

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Old September 3rd, 2009, 10:20 AM   #8
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I don't think it's that humiliating.
It's an act of the girl wanting to pleasure the guy, and not herself.
As long as she isn't... forced... :/ into it, then she'll be happy to do it.
Most girls think it's wrong, others don't.
Same goes for anal sex.
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 01:12 PM   #9
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Giving oral sex is a way of showing that you really love your partner and want to give them real pleasure. Its a way of lingering over your partner and not going all out to get humping. I dont find it humiliating to do.
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Old September 3rd, 2009, 04:58 PM   #10
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I like oral. In fact it's my favourite. As long as she isnt forced and she wants to I dont think its humiliating.

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Old September 3rd, 2009, 05:39 PM   #11
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Personally - (as a girl)

I have an extreme dislike of giving oral sex to a guy, but at the same time I really want to becuase I know how much they love it. (My dislike is based purely on the experience of one ex-boyfriend who did not have good personal hygiene and the fact that the back of my tongue is really sensitive and it takes a lot of concentration to not gag whenever anything touches it.)

I also love receiving oral sex, though I often wonder what I am supposed to do with my hands, and I won't let a guy do it unless I feel comfortable with him.

I don't find it humiliating, I view it as a selfless act of pleasure, purely for the other persons enjoyment.

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Old September 3rd, 2009, 05:50 PM   #12
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I don't think oral sex is humiliating, personally it's a way to show that you are not so interested in getting pleasure, as much as in giving it to your partner.
I'd be more humiliated if I offered and denied rather than accepted.

but don't force into it, and definitely let her draw the line.

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Old September 3rd, 2009, 06:17 PM   #13
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I don't find it humiliating, I view it as a selfless act of pleasure, purely for the other persons enjoyment.
Yes, that says perfectly what I tried to say above. +rep

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I don't think oral sex is humiliating, personally it's a way to show that you are not so interested in getting pleasure, as much as in giving it to your partner.
Yep, same
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Old September 4th, 2009, 07:34 AM   #14
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Giving oral sex is a way of showing that you really love your partner and want to give them real pleasure. Its a way of lingering over your partner and not going all out to get humping. I dont find it humiliating to do.
Same for me.
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Old September 5th, 2009, 08:40 PM   #15
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I don't think it's humiliating, so long as it is mutual... I think many guys expect girls to give them head without even thinking about repaying the favour... this I find offensive... I personally (as people have said before) think giving oral sex is a gesture of love - it's not humiliating, so long as the person being given oral sex doesn't make it humiliating... sorry this isn't very coherent...
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Old September 16th, 2009, 10:41 AM   #16
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I have debated this subject with my friends too, they've said similar things as most of you have written here and I came to a conclusion that I might be wrong about fellatio I talked about this subject with my other friends, which are girls ( of course they are convinced feminist) and told me just what I was believing at the start of this thread but I'm really starting to think that they may too give oral to a guy they really like and want to please
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Old September 16th, 2009, 09:07 PM   #17
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i don't find it humiliating......different then me giving her oral

as long as ur not like "b*tch suck my cock".....
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