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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:14 AM   #1
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Exclamation Im so stuck,hes going to kill me!

Hey dudes,erm i'm sort of stuck,my father beats me like crazy,he does it when either nobody is in the house or there is an empty room,and our house is huge so theres a lot of empty rooms,but he locks me in these rooms,and beats me!he's already broken my ribs,dislocated my left shoulder broken both arms a number of times, and he's bled me!damn it i'm weak,i'm stuck,i don't know what to do,because if i try getting away and telling someone again then the repercussions are going to be so much worse than my last beating.owww please someone help me!
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:19 AM   #2
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I don't understand. Why haven't you're parents/siblings/friends/school seen the bruises?


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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:20 AM   #3
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Aww.

Try telling him that he's hurting you.. and that you can't take it anymore.

Tell the cops; get him in jail.

Move in with a friend for a little, just to scare him.

I'm really sorry about this!<3
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:26 AM   #4
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With the bruises and marks he has reasons,like i was helping him at his steel workplace in the workshop and something happened,i cant tell anyone because im scared of what he WILL do,he controls my life.
And he's not going to listen if i tell him to stop.i gave that idea up ages ago.but thank you anyway.ow.i cant move in with a friend,he wont let me and im only 15!ow.
Oh and by the way Jalin,please dont be sorry,its not your fault i have a physco for a father.
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:28 AM   #5
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With the bruises and marks he has reasons,like i was helping him at his steel workplace in the workshop and something happened,i cant tell anyone because im scared of what he WILL do,he controls my life.
And he's not going to listen if i tell him to stop.i gave that idea up ages ago.but thank you anyway.ow.i cant move in with a friend,he wont let me and im only 15!ow.
Oh and by the way Jalin,please dont be sorry,its not your fault i have a physco for a father.
You deserve the best.

Just runaway to a friends house. Don't tell him where you're going.
Just go to school, and don't go back home- but go somewhere safe.

Tell the principal at your school, he could probably care for you while things get situated.
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:35 AM   #6
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Ow,thank you but it just wouldn't work.it really wouldn't,he drives me to school,walks me INTO the school then departs,he picks me up at lunchtimes-hes so strict i have to wait with a teacher who collects me after my class so i dont go anywhere,i really cant do anything i can think of.oww.but dude,thank you.
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 11:57 AM   #7
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Hey dudes,erm i'm sort of stuck,my father beats me like crazy,he does it when either nobody is in the house or there is an empty room,and our house is huge so theres a lot of empty rooms,but he locks me in these rooms,and beats me!he's already broken my ribs,dislocated my left shoulder broken both arms a number of times, and he's bled me!damn it i'm weak,i'm stuck,i don't know what to do,because if i try getting away and telling someone again then the repercussions are going to be so much worse than my last beating.owww please someone help me!

What your father is doing is wrong, i feel deeply for you. Call childline. Get help, you need it. This is an awful thing for your father to do and he should be sent to jail. Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. x
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 12:02 PM   #8
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Ow dude,thank you.but its as simple as this-he does not let me out of his sight,i cant call childline,he logs everything,so he will know.ow.thank you for your advice,but i just dont know what to do,it makes me want to just kill myself and end my pain permanently.ow.im 15 and my stupid father has done so much to me that im feeling suicidal.ow.

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 12:04 PM   #9
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while at school
go to the headteacher
tell them
get them to call the police
and when he comes to get you
have him arrested

you have plenty of evidence just show them the bruises and other marks hes made

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 12:11 PM   #10
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Dude,thanks but ive tried,my dad and my headmaster are close friends,always have been.the last time i went to him was about 2 and a half years ago,he just told my dad,i got put in hospital.thanks but i dont think it will work,but thank you.ow
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 12:13 PM   #11
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not got any teachers you can trust? they can jsut call the cops for you

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 12:20 PM   #12
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He knows everyone,hes even a school governor and part time invigilator
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 01:03 PM   #13
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grab a phone and just run
or if you got a bike even better just get away to your friends house and call the cops from there

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 01:13 PM   #14
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I don't mean this to sound rude, but I'm sure you DO have someone to tell. It doesn't matter if you're father and headmaster are friends. You go, cry to him, and explain the situation. So be it, If you get put into hospital again, you can tell nurses in hospital what's going on. You need to refuse to go home.
I'm not sure what else to suggest. How many teachers are there in you're school? Probably a hell of a lot like mine.

If you're father logs everything, are you going to get away with this thread?


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Old June 3rd, 2009, 02:35 PM   #15
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I can get away with this thread because im viewing and altering it using an operating system on my memory stick,which he doesn't know about.and anyway the last time i got help he was only given counselling,then we moved,then he started again.thanks anyway
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 02:38 PM   #16
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just call the cops and show em what hes done to you. they will stop him

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 02:48 PM   #17
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I'm so sorry. If you can mabey when he is sleeping run away. If you don't get out he will kill you. You have to do something. Go to a guidance counselor call the police or go to a friends house. I hate hearing that you have to live like this. Pm me so we can talk if you want.

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 02:53 PM   #18
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I just cant see how he seems to have all bases covered?
All the teacher's on side? A teacher has a duty of care no matter how cowish they can be, they are payed to listen to the kids!
There is no way a teacher would give you back to your dad at lunchtime if they actually knew you were hit like this.

Manages to keep you "imprisoned" at lunch times, doesnt he have a job to maintain the "big house"
And how can he keep tabbs on all outside comunication?

If its that bad bunk off a lesson!
Run off to the cop shop. Child protection is now OTT so a genuine case will get you well safe and hidden, now with the baby P thing all child protection things are on overdrive!

I hope this is just an attention seeking stunt or something because it just seems to hopless to be real.

If it is real there is always a way out, It all depends on who wants what more.
Either for you to get out or for yout father to keep you living in hell.
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Old June 3rd, 2009, 02:55 PM   #19
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Oh I have read a story about your case. The book is called a child named it. If you ever need to talk I am here and I have lots of good advice so please just pm me anytime.

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Old June 3rd, 2009, 03:30 PM   #20
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Just running away is not going to work trust me I've had similar problems. You need to get authorites involved, and plead for a court date or something, that way you can testify against him. Also, try getting to a hospital sometime. People who do that kinda shit, like forensics, can tell if your limbs have been broken.

Also, I'm sorry, FOR you. Your dad is a worthless bastard who needs some help or some prison time, maybe getting assraped by the giant in the showers would teach him a lesson.
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