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Old March 10th, 2009, 03:41 AM   #1
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Hey all you out there should i tell my dad that i masterbate cause i dont know what he will say
if he finds out and i havent told himso i dont know and i need help
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Old March 10th, 2009, 05:15 AM   #2
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you don't need to tell your dad you masturbate. he probably knows seeing as almost everyone does. Its a private thing.

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Old March 10th, 2009, 05:32 AM   #3
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hey mate, i don't think it's necessary to tell your dad. I'd say he's realised that you have hit puberty and therefore i think he'll know you masturbate. remember, he's been there before so he knows what teenage boys do.
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Old March 10th, 2009, 07:25 AM   #4
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Yeah totally he already knows, if he doen't dont sweat it! He was a kid at some point and masterbated so if you want to ever tell him you should know that.

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Old March 10th, 2009, 08:31 AM   #5
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Hey all you out there should i tell my dad that i masterbate cause i dont know what he will say
if he finds out and i havent told himso i dont know and i need help
i don't think you should
it's obvious for him i think
it might make you both feel embarassed

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Old March 10th, 2009, 09:07 AM   #6
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If he doesn't already know, he doesn't need to.
Almost every person, male and female, has tried masturbating. Most guys continue to do so, even in adulthood and when they are married.
Your father probably does himself.

It's a private thing to do. Would you tell everyone if you stated having sex? No- because it's something you do in private.
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Old March 10th, 2009, 11:10 AM   #7
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Masturbation is a private thing. You choose who you want to include in it, wether it be mutual masturbation or just telling people you do. You don't have to tell anyone about it if you don't want to.

I wouldn't bother telling my Dad because I'm sure he already knows (either from experience or just knowing that that's what guys who have hit puberty do) your dad was a teenager once too so he'll know what goes through teenage boys' minds
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Old March 10th, 2009, 11:36 AM   #8
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Hey all you out there should i tell my dad that i masterbate cause i dont know what he will say
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It seems like you and your Father are really close, and if that is the case, then I suppose you can ask him questions about puberty as opposed to coming right out and telling him that you masturbate. After all, your Father is your best resource for puberty-related questions, and he ideally should be your primary go-to person.

To answer your question directly, I would not necessarily tell your Father that you masturbate, but if you have questions about it, then it is all right to ask him. I seriously doubt your Father would get upset at you for your masturbating as nearly all guys do so, and when your Father was your age he surely masturbated. Especially if you and your Father have a good relationship your asking him puberty questions will probably only make your relationship with him stronger than it is before as it shows that you trust him with anything.
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Old March 10th, 2009, 12:51 PM   #9
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no its a personal thing and there is nothing worng with it!

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Old March 12th, 2009, 03:03 PM   #10
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It seems like you and your Father are really close, and if that is the case, then I suppose you can ask him questions about puberty as opposed to coming right out and telling him that you masturbate. After all, your Father is your best resource for puberty-related questions, and he ideally should be your primary go-to person.

To answer your question directly, I would not necessarily tell your Father that you masturbate, but if you have questions about it, then it is all right to ask him. I seriously doubt your Father would get upset at you for your masturbating as nearly all guys do so, and when your Father was your age he surely masturbated. Especially if you and your Father have a good relationship your asking him puberty questions will probably only make your relationship with him stronger than it is before as it shows that you trust him with anything.
I agree. There's no reason to just tell him you masturbate.
If you have questions about puberty, and you feel comfortable talking to your dad about that stuff, then that's great. If somehow he finds out, or you mention masturbating during one of your discussions, then that's ok. He probably figures you do anyway.
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Old March 12th, 2009, 04:56 PM   #11
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Don't tell him. He probably already assumes you do it, and if he catches you, he will just let it drop and won't think any less of you (unless ur family is strict Christian etc.). If you have questions, ask them, but there is no need to just tell him for the sake of telling him.

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Old April 9th, 2009, 09:45 PM   #12
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i rather keep it a secret

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Old April 10th, 2009, 04:50 AM   #13
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Your dad would of proberly done it when he was a teenager. What ever feels right to you. He would proberly be lost for words at first, but be understanding in the end. It all comes to what you think in the end.
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Old April 10th, 2009, 05:22 AM   #14
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As this is pretty much resolved, and nearing its use by date.

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