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Old January 21st, 2009, 08:44 PM   #1
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ok so two weeks ago i slept over a friends house, we are good friends but we never really talked about porn or puberty and that stuff. so by the end of the night (like 12 at nite) we were still both awake so he pulled out his laptop and we looked at some porn. i had been reading the posts about j/o with friends and wanted to try it so i took the opportunity, and i asked him. he said that i could j/o to the porn by myself and he would go to sleep. i asked him why he doesn't want to but he just said he was really tired (we were both wide awake not much before) but i could do what i wanted, and he rolled over and tried to go to sleep. so i did for a lil bit but stopped cas it wasnt any fun with him laying right next to me asleep so i stopped. next morning was a lil uncomfortable for like two seconds then fine.

ive been busy the past week so i couldnt hang out with him over the week, but today in school he asked if i wanted to hang out (which usually ends in sleep over) and i said i might be able to (have to check work schedule)

i can/will go but im not sure what to do... should i ask him again to j/o or see if he brings up the porn again.. should i start talking about stuff like that or what. im not sure if HE was unsure what to do if he doesnt ever want to or if he was just to scared to do it this time. im wondering if this is his usual "you want to hang out/sleepover" or a second try at us j/o....

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Old January 21st, 2009, 09:20 PM   #2
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I think the secret question here is j/oing with him, right? I mean, you can masturbate by yourself, no problem, he's already said so. So, you want to do it with (or to) him, yes?

I think the issue isn't just horniness here, not just masturbating, it's 'experimentation', it's the interpersonal aspect of it, with another person. And it sounds like he already gave you your answer. He knows what you want, your best bet is to leave it alone and see what happens if you decide to take out the porn again. Should he choose to not engage in mutual masturbation, then I'd strongly advise against you brining it up, for as you've mentioned, that could risk the friendship.
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Old January 21st, 2009, 09:32 PM   #3
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If he mentions porn again, maybe he wants you to ask again.

If he doesn't, just don't bring it up. That simple
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Old January 21st, 2009, 11:33 PM   #4
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well if he dosent want to dont push him man let it all fall into place

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Old January 22nd, 2009, 12:22 AM   #5
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I honestly think that you are very curious about him and maybe you get turned on by him. That is okay. However, he is your friend and it might open a whole can of worms.. Friends respect each other and in the first place..he should not show you porn if he respects you. You at the same time should not persue with jacking of with him...every friendship has that parallel line that never crosses. It should remain that way because one those two line cross each other...conflict happens. Respect yourself and respect your friend. there are more things you can do fun than that. this is how to keep friends forever.
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Old January 22nd, 2009, 03:22 AM   #6
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only ask him if he mentions porn
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Old January 22nd, 2009, 10:55 AM   #7
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i masturbated with my friend watching porn on his ipod and it was good we were both like embarrassed but once we started it was fine and it would probly be the same with u two but dont pressure him tho
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Old January 22nd, 2009, 12:56 PM   #8
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two ways, watch porn then challenge him to truth or dare, to the extreme, it practically carries on from there. Or after watching porn, challenge him to a length comportition.(not spelt right lol)
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Old January 22nd, 2009, 07:08 PM   #9
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i think that since he asked you to hang out (sleep over) agaion he might be hinting or trying to get the chance to do it with you this time!

so i would say wait for him to bring it up or bring out the porn
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Old January 22nd, 2009, 08:12 PM   #10
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i agree with 'sunsings' , if he invited to sleep over again , then he might be willing to do it this time, and polly last time he was just unsure about doing it. Wait for the porm. and shooot out and say it again, if he says no then i guess you should stop trying before he getts more annoyed.

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Old January 22nd, 2009, 10:39 PM   #11
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yes u should ask him again
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Old January 23rd, 2009, 04:08 PM   #12
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u never know u should just go to sleep over and he might ask u instead of u askin him.

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Old January 23rd, 2009, 04:53 PM   #13
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just bring it up, ask him if he wanks off and if he'd like to try it, and mention circle jerkin and w.e

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Old January 23rd, 2009, 05:08 PM   #14
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As someone up above said, he might ask you.
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Old January 24th, 2009, 07:46 AM   #15
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its either
1. He wanted to j/o with you
2. He dont want to j/o with you BUT he just want to be friends with you

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Old January 24th, 2009, 08:24 AM   #16
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Well I think it could happened since he invited you over again but let him bring it up. If he doesn't bring it up he most likely does not want to do it. He could be uncomfortable and just needs time to get comfortable with the two of you jerking off. I know when my friends and I first started j/o together, I denied that I even j/o at all. Then I got comfortable and eventually jerked off with one of my friends. Then it seemed like I started j/o with this friend and a bunch of us all started doing it together.

He may just want to be your friend and like having you over for sleep overs too.

The important thing to remember here is do not force you friend to j/o with you or you may lose this friend for ever.
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Old January 24th, 2009, 09:38 AM   #17
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Well, he no probably knows that by bring up porn you wanted to masturbate so if he did it again he probably wants you to bring it up. If it was his first time with a friend he might not have known what to say so he just went with the safest answer. Now he might have thought it over and now realizes he wants to do it. Or he just wants to set things straight and let you know he still wants to be friends but he doesn't want to make the relationship sexual.
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Old January 25th, 2009, 02:23 AM   #18
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Just let it flow
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Old January 25th, 2009, 02:34 AM   #19
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you should have just j/o right beside him that night he probably would be more open to it if you had of
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