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Old November 27th, 2008, 05:07 PM   #1
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Teach him to masturbate? or should you let him know by himself?

Also how to approach your child about puberty( growth, masturbation, sex, deoderant etc.)
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Old November 27th, 2008, 05:11 PM   #2
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I wouldnt teach him to masterbate... i think thats a but personal to talk about with your dad of all people. I wouldnt talk about how to have sex unless he asked me, however i would probably have the talk about growth and development and ESPECIALLY deoderant when he was about 10 (School Y6) becuase i think its VITAL that they find out about that stuff when they start to change.

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Old November 27th, 2008, 05:45 PM   #3
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I would talk about how to take care of yourself. I would want my son to be open and not hesitate to come to me if he needed something or information. I would for sure teach him about puberty, hygenie, deodorant, shaving, whatever. As for sex, I would have a talk, how to be safe. And for masturbation, I'm sure he'll figure that out on his own.

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Old November 27th, 2008, 06:09 PM   #4
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Teach him to masturbate? or should you let him know by himself?

Also how to approach your child about puberty( growth, masturbation, sex, deoderant etc.)
i wouldn't. i know thats the last thing i would talk to my dad about; and i wouldn't want to do anything like that. but just imagine now, you had a kid and you taught him to masturbate. then in some conversation with his friends about how they discovered masturbation, he (who may be naive and not know how wierd this is) then says "my dad showed me.." well holy smoldering arseholes his life'd be over in a flash; and everything would just collapse around him and lies and gossip spread like wildfire..

ruin his life.



but i would teach him about puberty and hygene, etc.

safe sex talk

you know, let him be open.

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Old November 27th, 2008, 07:03 PM   #5
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I wouldn't tell him how to j/o, but about the other stuff ONCE, and only ONCE.
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Old November 27th, 2008, 07:13 PM   #6
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Sure, I'd warn him about sex, how to shave stuff like that. But only if the oppertunity presents itself. Also I wouldn't teach him how to Jack off, not only is that extremely uncomfortable, but what if he hated me. He could tell you know.

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Old November 27th, 2008, 08:49 PM   #7
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I would talk about how to take care of yourself. I would want my son to be open and not hesitate to come to me if he needed something or information. I would for sure teach him about puberty, hygenie, deodorant, shaving, whatever. As for sex, I would have a talk, how to be safe. And for masturbation, I'm sure he'll figure that out on his own.
Same here.
I would want my son to be able to ask me anything he needs.
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Old November 27th, 2008, 09:22 PM   #8
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I wouldn't teach my son- I know he'll figure it out on his own- besides masturbation is a private thing.



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Old November 28th, 2008, 12:47 PM   #9
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I would definitly not show or teach my son how to masturbate, but i would be very open to him especially about hygine.
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Old November 28th, 2008, 01:23 PM   #10
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I think 90% of guys tend to work out wanking on their own...
Plus these days there's sights like jackinworld that help.
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Old November 28th, 2008, 01:50 PM   #11
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Do you wish your dad taught you how to masturbate? I am guessin' thats a no.
I wouldn't. Sure the standard sex talk but it ends there. Curiousity will take over.






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Old November 29th, 2008, 08:20 AM   #12
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I learned by myself so I would probably let him learn too. But my younger brother has been asking a lot of questions lately and I've sort of been teaching him a little, so it might depend on how that turns out.
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Old November 29th, 2008, 10:32 AM   #13
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i think it is better for him to find out on his own. that is a personal preference.
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Old November 29th, 2008, 10:34 AM   #14
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It's part of being a teenager, discovering how to pleasure yourself.

I might tell him about sex like only do it if your ready use condoms etc.

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Old November 29th, 2008, 12:20 PM   #15
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Surely it wouldn't be appropriate for that to happen between a father and son...


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Old November 29th, 2008, 01:20 PM   #16
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no, it would extremlly unconfortable for the child. Think if your dad showed you how, what the best way, where to touch, what to think and what to watch. Creeps me out it would creep them out so. I'd so they can find out for themselves or if they ask you can answer if they ask what is masturbation and how. You can say "It pleasuring yourself and find out on your own". =)

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i would NOT teach him to masturbate. that would be SO awkward. however, unlike my own father, i want to have an active role in my son's life and teach him about hygiene, shaving, puberty, etc. if my son was anything like me, i'd have to force it on him or he wouldn't ask questions at all.

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Old December 2nd, 2008, 03:23 PM   #18
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I don't think i would teach him to masturbate unless he asked i mean im a pretty chill person but i dont think id want my parents more likely my dad teaching me or talking to me about puberty unless i thought something was like seriously wrong with me or i was scared about something you know?
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Old December 2nd, 2008, 03:45 PM   #19
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I would talk about how to take care of yourself. I would want my son to be open and not hesitate to come to me if he needed something or information. I would for sure teach him about puberty, hygenie, deodorant, shaving, whatever. As for sex, I would have a talk, how to be safe. And for masturbation, I'm sure he'll figure that out on his own.
Same here...that's a good answer.
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Old January 26th, 2009, 12:49 AM   #20
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I whould ask him if he knew what it was when he as 13 and if he didnt id tell him not teach but tell
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